Glamour.com Smitten, September 2011

Dirty Talk: 3 Easy Ways to Pull it Off

Babeland, one of our favorite adult shops around, employs sex educators who share all sorts of helpful sex and sexual health information with customers. Today, Audrey, the Sex Educator and Education Coordinator from Babeland Seattle, gives us the scoop on how to pull off dirty talk, even if you’re feeling bashful!


"The cheapest, easiest way to spice up your sex life is to talk dirty. There are three easy ways to get started. Say what you are doing, i.e. "I love being on top! This is so hot!" Say what you want to be doing i.e. "I want you to wrap your arms around me from behind," or talk about a total fantasy that isn't really going to happen, but that turns you on i.e. "I want you to tie me up to the mast of a ship and have your way with me in the middle of the ocean!" Well, I guess that could happen, but you get the idea. If you have a hard time saying anything during sex, start by practicing while you are masturbating. It will feel silly at first, but after a few times you will be stringing together hot and sexy words that will get you what you want while you're getting down."