Get a Grip With This New Vibrator!

Introducing a vibrator into couple's play is all sorts of hot, but when it comes down to it, even the most tech-savvy guys can find themselves befuddled by a vibrator's control panel. There's a new vibrator on the scene that's ridiculously easy (and fun!) to use. Vibrations on the Minna Ola are controlled by your (or your partner's) grip. Simply squeeze the soft pad at the base of the toy to indicate what sort of vibration strength or frequency you'd like. Read More at Glamour.com.

Smooth Moves

There's one place where it's OK to let your guy slide: in bed. Experts reveal why the right amount of lube can make lovin' even more amazing. Five hot new lubes to try: 2) Flavored lubes like dessert-y BabeLicious ($8, babeland.com) or herb-and flower-infused Good Clean Love ($14, amazon.com), an eco-friendly pick, take the "job" out of the BJ. Since they're glycerin-free, he won't have to rinse off pre-sex.

Ask the Guy Next Door

Q: I'd like to use sex toys, but how do I broach the topic with my boyfriend?

A: Unless they're diesel powered or way too anatomically correct, most toys aren't a big deal for guys these days. But if you're worried about how he'll react, start with the simplest toy you have: you. Next time you're on top, reach down and lend yourself a helping hand. Afterward, size him up. If he seems weirded out, you'll have to be careful about busting out your toy box of fun. Otherwise, say, "That was great, right? I was thinking about doing some shopping. Want to help?" Then check out lelo.com, babeland.com, or Jimmyjane.com.

8 new things to try with your guy

Shop in the "adult" department "I don't feel sexy" was exactly what I said as we walked in the door at the sex toy shop Babeland. My guy and I had both had horrible days at work, and thanks to a lingering cold, it had been two weeks since we'd had sex. So having to buy a sex toy seemed like a chore. Plus, I felt silly. I've always been too shy to tell him my fantasies, and I'd never been inside a sex toy store, so walking up to the massive gadget displays was making me blush. Finally, to break the ice, my boyfriend made a joke about a vibrator shaped like a rubber ducky. I laughed and thought about why I love him: He’s funny and he makes me feel comfortable. We browsed the shelves, discussing if something would be fun to use together. I loved how he knew my likes and dislikes. I felt closer to him than I had in days. So close, in fact, that I came out of my shell and remembered that it's actually not embarrassing to share my turn-ons with him. We left with a 'couple's vibrator' which gives simultaneous his-and-her stimulation during sex. We tried it the moment we walked through the door at home. The toy was amazing! We're talking instant O. I'm surprised to say so, but we'll be going back to see what else we might like. Passion factor: Sizzing hot