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Best Sex Toys for Men, 2011

Mon, 12 Mar 2012 16:54:37 GMT

Great Gadgets for Guys.

Sure, your hand feels good. It knows what you like, it's been there for you from the beginning, and it's gotten you off reliably more times than you can count. But I tell you this: if you haven't already gotten that very hand on a masturbation sleeve, prostate stimulator, and/or vibrating cock ring, you are most assuredly missing out on some of the greatest pleasure the world has to offer. Having played with dozens of men's toys, I can guarantee that there's something out there for every guy. Here's a guide to some of my hand-tested personal favorites.

Duet Vibrating Cock Ring

Cobra Libre

Naughty Boy

Orgasm in a Box (His)

BabeLube

Nuts and Bolts Kit

Duet Vibrating Cock Ring
Everyone loves a vibrating cock ring these days. They're designed to provide added clitoral stimulation for your partner, but I'm sure that more than a few of you have said, "That's great... but what's in it for me?" Pleasing your partner is always important, but who wants to feel left out by a toy they're wearing? For these situations, look no further than the Duet Vibrating Cock Ring. This one's got two vibrators: one to tickle her clit, and one to buzz pleasantly below your balls! And beyond that, it does exactly what most cock rings are designed to do:
- Hold the blood flow inside the penis, keeping your erection extra-hard for a longer period of time.
- When worn around the balls as well, delay ejaculation, so you don't come as quickly... and when you do, it's friggin' awesome. (See How to Use a Cock Ring for helpful tips.)
Other suggestions: The classic Sonic Ring Kit is a great easy-to-use starter vibrating cock ring, beloved by many a first-timer. And Shag Factory Swing Ring sends its tingle all the way down to a metal ball that rocks against your perineum between thrusts! Or for the ultimate upgrade, try the rechargeable silicone Tor from Lelo: it's environmentally friendly, and classy-looking to boot.

Cobra Libre
I've gotten pretty initimately familiar with the Cobra Libre, and I am not exaggerating when I tell you that it's among the greatest inventions of humankind. This vibrating sleeve by Fun Factory stimulates the cock in a way that few guys have ever felt before: its dual motors bombard the glans and frenulum (on the underside, where the head meets the shaft) with a wide selection of vibrations and pulsations, guaranteed to get you off without any stroking or thrusting required. I know it may seem strange that it doesn't cover the entire shaft, but trust me: you won't be complaining when you feel what the Cobra Libre has to offer.
Other suggestions: One masturbation sleeve that demands recognition is the Tenga Air. This simple cylinder opens up to reveal an elastomer sleeve covered with dozens of different textures (so many, in fact, that your penis can't possibly complain). On top of this, you can control the level of suction with an air release button. And the Fleshlight, with its velvety-soft Superskin vulva opening, is famous for good reason. (See How to Use the Fleshlight for all sorts of fun ideas.)
Naughty Boy
Every man should find his prostate (or P-spot) once in his life. I say "once" because I know that after the first time, he'll revisit those good times over and over. And not only does a nice prostate massage feel amazing, but it's good for you! (See How to Stimulate the Prostate for more info.) For the prostate pros out there, enjoy one of the most satisfying of all prostate toys: the Naughty Boy. The Naughty Boy is made of a cushy silicone, and contains a powerful bullet vibe. Its thoughtful shape targets both the prostate and perineum, and provides a feeling of fullness that few others can. It takes a lot to impress my prostate, but believe me, the Naughty Boy more than did the job.

Other suggestions: If you've never gone spelunking for your P-spot before, the Aneros MGX is a perfect place to start; its hard plastic puts delectably firm pressure on your prostate, and the handle is perfectly designed for easy massage. I've also heard nothing but praises sung for Njoy's stainless steel Pfun Plug: it's weighty, smooth, cool, and versatile (manipulate it like you would the Aneros, or just pop it in and leave it there while you go about your business).

Orgasm in a Box (His)

Okay, so maybe you're reading this article because you've got a friend/boyfriend/husband who's too shy to buy himself a sex toy, or who's skeptical that toys are for him. Fear not: the Orgasm in a Box (His) (a great value at $18!) contains some of the best beginner-level men's toys on the market, including a super-stretchy Tenga Egg masturbation sleeve (try all six egg patterns for completely different sensations), Babeland's very own Sonic Ring Kit (see above), and BabeLube samples. Help yourself (or your guy) see the light with these gateway toys, and you (or he) will never look back.

Other suggestions: The Big Daddy Pump draws blood to the penis, increasing sensitivity and temporarily expanding the tissue. (It's not permanent, despite what Austin Powers might have you believe, but I can promise you that it's a sensation you'll never forget.) Or if you know a guy who's curious about everything but can't choose, try the

Nuts and Bolts Kit— it's got a little bit of everything, so he can't miss.

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How to Choose an Anal Toy

Mon, 05 Mar 2012 16:30:00 GMT

Not sure whether you want a butt plug, anal vibrator, anal beads or a prostate toy? his handy guide will explain the differences in anal sex toys and help you get started easily and comfortably with anal sex.

Are you looking for ...	Try...
More education about anal sex?	Anal play is a learning process, especially if your goal is anal intercourse. Education is crucial! Check out a book like Anal Pleasure and Health or an article like How to Have Anal Sex.
A first-time butt plug?	Small butt plugs like the Little Flirt and the Bootie are another great introduction to the joys of anal play.If you're not ready for the butt plug, sexy black latex gloves and lube make for a great first anal sex experience.
The best lube for your butt?	Lube is absolutely essential for anal play. We love Maximus, which is thick, glycerin-free, and water-based; Eros Bodyglide, a super-slick silicone lube; and vegan Sliquid Sassy Booty Formula.
Anal sex toys that are easy to clean?	Silicone is the material of choice for anal toys. It’s soft yet medical-grade which means it can be disinfected and safely shared with partners. However, keep in mind that you can’t use silicone lube with silicone toys.
An anal vibrator?	The slim Pandora plug is made for a man’s body but is strong enough for a woman’s! It’s the only anal vibrator that boasts pulsating vibrations.
Anal beads?	People love the opening-and-closing sensation provided by bumpy anal beads. Try out our hygienically-superior silicone versions -- Flexi Felix, Ripple, and Babeland's own Anal Beads.
A prostate massager?	Men especially love anal play because they can access the prostate (also known as the male G-spot or P-spot) anally. The Aneros is a patented toy that provides a hands-free prostate massage.
A hands-free, stay-put butt plug?	Butt plugs are made to go in and stay in–-hands-free! Both the Ryder and Big Flirt are medium-sized anal plugs for folks who want an anal sex toy that will stay put.
An inexpensive anal sex toy?	The Classic Plug is an inexpensive alternative to silicone plugs. Because these anal sex toys are made of a porous material, we recommend putting a condom on them when they’re in use.
A deluxe treat?	Both the Pure Plug and Pandora anal vibrator are deluxe toys. The Pandora pulsates as it pleases. The Pure Plug is crafted of heavy, non-porous stainless steel. A sumptuous treat!
A large butt plug?	Both the Severin and Tristan are large butt plugs for experienced butts. Enjoy their generous size and the ultimate feeling of fullness.
An anal dildo?	Dildos are great toys for anal sex. The Silk series is slim and smooth, perfect for anal sex. The Mistress is also slim but longer and with a wider base. A great anal sex toy to put in a dildo harness.
A dildo harness kit (aka "strap on")?	The Bend Over Boyfriend Kit pairs the Silk 1 and 2 dildos with a comfy nylon harness. The Jaguar Harness and Leo Combo Kit pairs two premium sex toys at a $31 savings.

Anal Play Tips

Remember our butt mantra "relaxation, lubrication, communication" and you should be happily enjoying fun, pleasurable anal sex in no time:

Relaxation is crucial to anal play. Two anal sphincters surround and protect the anal opening. If you make friends with these muscles and learn to relax them, you’ll quickly discover why folks love anal play. Remember, if you feel any pain or discomfort at any time, slow down and relax!
Lubrication protects delicate anal tissues. It also makes yummy sensations even more delicious. Because butts do not create natural lubrication (like vaginas), lube out of the bottle is absolutely required.
Communication is another method of protecting yourself and your partner. Especially if you’re just starting to explore anal sex, it’s important that the partner being penetrated should always be in complete control of what’s happening – how fast, how much, how deep. Connect with your partner about what feels good and what doesn’t!

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How to Put on a Condom

Sun, 04 Mar 2012 12:47:00 GMT

Condoms are so effective at preventing pregnancy and disease transmission that they've take up permanent residence in bedside tables and wallets across the world. They're easy to obtain and easy to put on. Keep in mind that most condoms don't break because they're defective, but because they're used incorrectly. So whether you're new to condom use or have had a problem with breakage, brush up on these tips for putting on a condom correctly, then hop on over to How to Choose a Condom.

Look on the condom package for the expiration date. If the date has passed, use a fresh condom. Also, don't use condoms that are brittle or have been exposed to heat or sun.
Take care opening the package, as fingernails and teeth can rip the condom. Tear open the package from the corner with your fingers.
Wait till the penis is erect before putting on a condom.
Check to see which way the condom unrolls, and put a couple of drops of lube on the surface that will be touching the penis. Center it over the penis so that it will unroll properly (think of how a carpet unrolls).
Pinch the small pucker in the middle of the disk of the rolled up condom. Squeeze it shut to prevent air bubbles, and hang onto the top inch of the condom while you place the condom on the head of the penis. If the penis is uncircumcised, pull the foreskin back.
Unroll the condom down the shaft, squeezing the air out as you go. Air bubbles are a common cause of condom breakage. Be sure to cover the whole length of the shaft to prevent semen from leaking out.
Often the condom will turn out to be longer than the penis you are putting it on. That leaves a ring of rolled up latex at the base of the penis that does not stretch as easily as unrolled latex, and can constrict the penis. When guys say that all the condoms they have tried are too small for them, many times this problem is what they are referring to. If you scoot the condom up along the shaft and unroll it completely at the base, you can then scootch it back down so it’s more like a scrunched-up sock than a hard rubber ring, and thus is less restrictive.
After intercourse, make sure to hold on to the base of the condom as you withdraw, to avoid spillage. Never re-use condoms!

Excerpted from Sex Toys 101: A Playfully Uninhibited Guide.

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How to Pack: A Beginner's Guide

Fri, 02 Mar 2012 13:05:00 GMT

Under Cover Harness

Goodfella SparepartsJoque Harness Lonestar Commando Harness Soft Pack Mr. Right Mr. Right Packing Strap Mr. Bendy

If you found this article because you want tips on packing your sex toys for travel, you're in the wrong place (but this other article might help). The packing we're talking about is when someone puts something (sock, dildo, etc.) into their pants to make it look and/or feel as though they have a penis, noticeable bulge, or "package." People of all genders pack for lots of reasons. Some folks pack for costuming purposes, others because they want something that feels like an extension of their body. It can be about gender bending, power play, convenience, or being subversive and naughty. Whatever the reasons you choose to pack, these tips can help.

Before we get into some basic steps, first decide if you want to pack hard, soft, or somewhere in the middle. Packing hard means packing with a dildo or dick that is firm or "erect." Packing soft is a less functional way to pack, if the function you're looking for is penetration; it refers to wearing something resembling a more flaccid penis. There are some products that can also help you pack somewhere in the middle, so you can feel softer than some dils and still be able to penetrate.

Packing Hard

Choose a dildo or dick that you identify with. It should have a base that will hold it securely in a harness. Longer dildos are sometimes easier to bind down with underwear, while shorter dildos are more likely to protrude straight out. Dildos are available in different materials, including latex, jelly rubber, and silicone, to name a few. Latex and jelly rubber are more affordable, for folks who want to sample packing hard before making a larger investment, but will wear more quickly and need to be replaced more often. Silicone is a high-quality material that can be sanitized and shared safely. It comes in a variety of densities from extra-firm to really soft. Some dils, like the Lonestar, and Goodfella, come with balls that can add to your packing experience. Many transmen we know love the combination of the smaller-sized Goodfella and the Spareparts Joque Harness for hard packing. The Spareparts Joque is extremely comfortable to wear while packing (and playing!) and super-adjustable.
Find a comfortable harness. If you want to play with your dick, you'll need a comfortable harness. The Commando Harness, which can be either a one-strap (fits like a G-string) or a two-strap harness (fits like a jock strap), is nice because the leather softens and molds to your body. The O-rings are adjustable so you can be sure you've got the right fit for your dildo. And, if your dick has balls, the straps of the Commando can hold them nicely in place.
Get a snug pair of tighty whiteys or boxer briefs. You'll want an undergarment that will help you tame the raging hard-on in your pants until you're ready to unleash it. Some other items to consider are a g-string or jock strap.
Decide which way you want to dress. Which way does your dick hang? Up and to the right? Down and to the left? Arrange your dil in your underwear in the way that feels most comfortable to you.

Packing Soft

Decide upon a soft packer. For ages people have been wearing rolled up socks in their pants. While this is still a somewhat effective method, there are now soft dils made with packing in mind. They've even been known to pass the squeeze test in gay male bars! Soft Packs are made from cyberskin, a material that feels very realistic and warms nicely to body temperature. They're currently available in four tones (vanilla, mocha, chocolate, and blue) and four sizes (mini, small, medium, and large). The small is a more average size that is somewhat noticeable, while the large can border on porn star. Be sure to read the care instructions for cyberskin, as it is a more fragile material that requires extra care. A newly available alternative is Mr. Right, a silicone packing dick that has very realistic balls and a small nubbin for lovin'. Pat this packer down with cornstarch for a satiny feel in your shorts!
Put on your favorite undergarment. You can wear a soft pack in a pair of briefs, a G-string/thong, or a jock strap. These should all hold it firmly in place. Boxers and boxer-briefs will not hold in your softie, possibly leaving you in the position of having to retrieve it from the middle of the crosswalk.
Secure your softie. If you're not into briefs, or if you are but would like extra security, you can put your softie in the toe of a pair of nylons. Tie a knot behind the balls and safety-pin the knot to the waistband of your undergarment. Alternatively, you can wear a harness such as the Commando Harness, which will also safely hold in your softie. If you choose to wear a harness, be sure that your softie fits snugly and won't slip out. A product designed expressly to help secure your softie is the Cock Sock, which works great with mini-medium soft packs.
Arrange your package. If you don't have much experience with viewing packages, you might want to check out underwear ads for a better idea of how a penis hangs in a pair of briefs, jock, or bikini.

Middle of the Road

As more and more transguys are coming out and demanding more realistic products, more packers are becoming available that combine form with function; in other words, they look good and you can play with them.

What they are, what they do. Mr. Bendy is a cyberskin dil that can be bent into shape. Repeated bending in the same spot will eventually break the piece that holds the dil rigid for penetration, but it has a great feel for packing. Both options will allow you to pack “realistically,” and still have some function. They're great for blow jobs, okay for vaginal penetration, and less helpful for anal penetration, as they tend to be rather soft. Similarly, they're better used with slower penetration than with hard and fast fucking. One thing to keep in mind while packing Mr. Bendy, is that there is metal in the core that will set off detectors, so make your travel and packing (pun intended!) plans accordingly.
Stand up sit down fight fight fight! It's a good idea to arrange yourself however you feel most comfortable, then stand up and sit down a few times in the privacy of your own home so you know how your package is likely to shift. When it does shift, you can adjust yourself just like the rest of the guys.

Now go out and have a good time! Packing a bulge in your pants can change the ways that you feel when you're walking down the street or dancing with a partner. Have fun, experiment, and let yourself feel sexy!

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Biological Male Sexual Anatomy

Thu, 01 Mar 2012 22:31:00 GMT

Vibrant sexuality and sexual self-knowledge are everyone's birth-right, but what passes for sex-education in our culture is limited to information about reproduction and abstinence education. Understanding male sexual anatomy can put you more in touch with your sexuality if you are a guy and can tune the pitch of your touch if you are feeling up a guy. Men who want to experience multiple orgasms and to control their ejaculation teach themselves by tuning in to their bodies and strengthening pelvic muscles. Also, knowing how your body works helps you figure out what toys will feel good; your body is a clearing house of information about your own pleasure!

Anatomy of the Penis and Testicles

Although you can certainly have a boner, there is no "bone" of the penis in humans (many animals do have phallic bony structures). Nor is the penis composed of muscle, though there are muscles attached to the penis at the base. Rather, the penis is composed of three cylinders of spongy erectile tissue that have the capacity to expand to eight times their regular size when they are filled with blood, which is what makes an erection. Two of these cylinders run across the top part of the penis and are called the corpus covernosa. One runs along the bottom of penis and surrounds the urethra and is called the corpus spongeosum, and is connected to the head of the penis, called the glans, where the urethral opening sits. The glans of the penis contains the highest concentration of nerve endings in the penis, though it contains fewer nerve endings than the clitoris, so it is comparatively less sensitive. Some of the deliciously sensitive areas of the penis are: the coronal ridge, ridge around the head, the frenulum, and the raphe.

The underside of the ridge, where the head connects to the shaft is called the frenulum and is an extra sweet spot for tonguing or stroking. Along the bottom of the penis, running from the coronal ridge, down the penis over the middle of the testicles to the anus is a raised line or ridge called the raphe. Many men find the raphe is also an extra sensitive area of the shaft. The internal portion of the penis, (aka the base, bulb, or root of the penis) ends behind the testicles and can be felt by pressing the perineum, the area between the testicles and anus, also affectionately referred to as the "t'aint" (because it ain't here nor there) and "the chin-rest." One of the reasons anal penetration feels so great for many men is it stimulates the root of the penis through the rectal wall.

All men are born with a foreskin, a loose area of skin at the end of the penis that can be pulled back to expose the head. Many parents have infant foreskins removed by circumcision. Many Jews and Muslims continue to practice this genital modification for tradition and religious reasons, and the practice has at times been routinely performed on new-borns in US hospitals. Many men who have been circumcised as adults report that they have less sensitivity in their glans after circumcision. There is an active movement opposed to circumcision.

The testicles, the two grape-to-plum-sized bodies that produce sperm and testosterone, hang behind the penis in the fleshy sac of scrotum. Testicles vary in size and are temperature sensitive; the scrotum retracts and descends depending on states of arousal and temperature. While they are sensitive to pain, many men enjoy the feeling of squeezing and pulling on their scrotums. Cock rings with "ball stretchers" are intended to provide extended squeezing of the balls and many include a small hook for hanging weights or attaching a leash.

Erection

The process of erection involves both the sympathetic and autonomic nervous systems. In others words, sometimes a hard on just "happens" and at other times you can think yourself into a woody. The muscles containing the vascular supply to the penis are regularly tense. When men are aroused, these muscles relax, allowing a greater blood flow into the penis. As the three cavernous bodies of the penis fill with blood, the surrounding membrane becomes taut and pushes the vesicles closed, trapping the blood in the penis. Medication (legal and illegal) and health issues that affect the circulatory system can impact erection. Viagra works by causing the relaxation of the muscles and vesicles. Poppers do too. But anxiety and smoking, for example, are vaso-inhibitors that cause restriction in the blood flow and therefore can inhibit erection.

There are mechanical ways to keep blood in the penis to enhance erection. Cock rings and penis pumps are the most common. Check out the scoop on these products and how they work in our Shopping Advice.

Ejaculation and Orgasm

Ejaculation and orgasm are the result of two different physiological processes. And, although most men experience them as one and the same, one can learn to separate these processes and have "dry orgasms" and multiple orgasms.

As men get aroused they experience muscular tension building up in the groin. This is the tensing of the PC muscles, the sling of muscles that holds the sexual organs that rapidly contract during orgasm. Erectile tissue throughout the body becomes engorged. Blood rushes to nipples, lips and penis, and is accompanied by a feeling of warmth. As people become aroused their sensitivity to stimulation increases while sensitivity to pain reduces.

During arousal the testicles pull up closer to the body and sperm travel through the vas deferens tube (which is made of smooth muscle). As it passes the seminal vesicle and the prostate gland, seminal fluid is added to the mix. The prostate gland is donut shaped around the urethra. When the semen fills this area of the urethra, the urethra expands and puts pressure on the prostate, which sends a message to the spinal cord. Up until this point, a guy can pull himself back from the edge of ejaculation. He can change his breathing, back off on the stimulation or change it. This point of no return is called "ejaculatory inevitability" aka. "I'm gonna come!" Once the spinal nerves receive the full prostate message, they fire and cause the PC muscles, vas deferens, and prostate to contract and produce the spasms of orgasms. Pressure on the prostate gland, which can be stimulated through the anus, feels fabulous for many men.

Sperm actually only makes up about five percent of semen. The rest comes from the seminal vesicle, prostate gland and cowpers gland. The albumen, sugars, acids and enzymes produced by these glands make up the majority of ejaculate and make the sperm motile and enable them to live outside the body. Pre-come is produced by the cowpers gland, and functions to make the acidic urethra more hospitable for the semen. It can contain sperm and HIV, which means you can transmit HIV or get a woman pregnant even if you pull out before ejaculating or just rub genitals without ejaculating.

Multiple Orgasms, "Dry Orgasms," and Delayed Ejaculation

Learning to control ejaculation and extending sex (and building for multi-orgasmic response) involves learning how to stop and back off, breathe, slow down, move around or change stimulation right before you hit that point. The book The Multi-Orgasmic Man is a great resource with lots of exercises to help men build greater body and sexual awareness and expand their sexual response.

The Prostate Gland and Anus

The anus offers a world of pleasure and sensation for everyone who has one! For men, anal play offers extra delights because both the base of the penis and the prostate gland are accessible. For some men, pressing the prostate itself can generate an orgasm, for others it just adds to the sensations. You can stimulate the prostate with a finger, dick, dildo or other toy through the anus. It's located about two inches inside towards the belly. In fact its location is similar to the G-spot and is sometimes referred to as the Male G-spot. If you are diving for the prostate, remember the lube! Lubricant makes anal penetration much more pleasurable.

Common Questions

How do I learn to control my ejaculation and have multiple orgasms? Kegel exercises will help you strengthen the muscles that are involved in orgasm. Squeeze the muscles you would to cut off the flow of urine. Do that repeatedly. Click here for a more detailed How to Exercise Your PC Muscles. Also, as men approach ejaculation their testicles rise. Some men find that a gentle downward tug on the testicles can help delay ejaculation.

Will a cock ring keep me harder longer? Possibly. For some men, cock rings create a firmer erection and delay ejaculation. But for others, dressing up their dicks and putting on a squeeze feels so good, they come right away! It's not a "cure" for erectile difficulty, which can, in fact, be a medical issue that deserves a discussion with your doctor. Click here for more info on cock rings.

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How to Use Anal Beads

Tue, 28 Feb 2012 16:30:00 GMT

Beads for your butt? It may sound kind of crazy, but these special beads are designed to take advantage of the pleasant sensations that can occur as your sphincter muscles open and close around a series of small round objects. When withdrawn at the peak of orgasm, you may experience an erotic thrill unlike any other. If you're already discovered the joys of anal play, you owe it to yourself to give this toy a try.

What Are Anal Beads?

Anal beads are basically a series of small round beads spaced evenly along a cord (or sometimes attached to a stalk). Some beads are evenly sized, while others sport spheres that gradually increase as you work your way along the string. A few of our popular styles:

Babeland Anal Beads

Bendy Beads Flexi Felix

Made of simple, jelly rubber, Babeland Anal Beads are great for first-time anal adventurers, as they're relatively inexpensive and have a nice texture. (Note that since this material can’t be 100% disinfected by boiling like silicone can, we don’t recommend sharing this toy).
Sturdy silicone beads like Flexi Felix or Bendy Beads are hygienic, extremely comfortable, and easy to clean. On top of that they warm to the body quickly and can take on the vibration of a toy that’s held to its base.
Beaded dildos like the Ripple operate on the same principle as the beads, but are set along a firmer stalk or dildo.

How Do They Work?

Beads are like any other kind of butt plug with an added bonus: as each bead is inserted, the sphincter muscles contract and relax around each one for extra sensation. Some folks love the feeling of having them pulled out all at once during the moment of orgasm.

How Do I Use Them?

Remember the anal mantra when it comes to butt play: “communication, lubrication, and relaxation.” If you're new to anal play, you might want to learn more in our beginner's guide to butt sex.

Communication counts! Whether you’re using anal beads alone or with a partner you want to stay focused on what your body or your partner is telling you. Playing together? Check in with your partner with simple questions: Do you need more lube? Would it feel better to add more stimulation on other body parts? Are you ready for another bead?Is it time to pull them out?
Get a lube job. Since the butt doesn’t self-lubricate, it’s important to apply lots of lubricant (try a nice thick water-based lube like Maximus or Sliquid), to your beads, and be prepared to add more as action progresses.
Make sure you're turned on. Read your favorite erotica or watch some adult videos. Listen to your partner talk dirty, but get yourself in the mood. Some people like to have an orgasm (get a hand with the Hitachi Magic Wand) before heading for the back door to ensure their whole body is relaxed and blood is really pumping through the genitals, which can make the anus more sensitive.
Gently caress the anus. Tap lightly or massage the anal area in preparation.
Go slow. Take your time and insert the first bead. Stop for a moment and let your body adjust to the sensation. Insert the beads slooowly, allowing yourself to really savor the sensation. Stop to add extra lube when you need to. There’s no hurry to insert the entire set of beads to the hilt. The toy can feel just as nice when used partway, or just the first couple of beads.
Take a breather. Even if you’re reeling from the pleasure of the beads, don’t hold your breath. It’s a common practice for folks to take shallow breaths—or forget to breathe completely—during sex, but deep breathing is essential to enjoying sex, especially of the anal persuasion. Breathing deeply draws much-needed oxygen through your body, which helps to relax your muscles even further.
Add to your pleasure. Try adding other kinds of stimulation at the same time. Small vibrators like the Laya Spot vibe make it easy to send a good buzz to clit, nipples, penis, testicles or perineum while you’re working on the butt.
Go for timing. With the beads inside you and your orgasm building, try to time their withdrawal with your climax.
Gently now. Pull the beads straight out, rather than tilting them up or down. Resist the urge to yank them out as if you were starting a lawnmower, but respect your body and gently pull them out.

With a little bit of practice, anal beads can become your new favorite toy box addition!

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Best New Sex Toys for Men

Tue, 16 Jun 2009 16:54:00 GMT

Great Gadgets for Guys.

It’s an undeniable law of nature: guys like gadgets. Whether it’s a hydraulic staple puller or a hair-removing laser, man’s quest to satisfy his needs by means shiny, efficient technology has been never-ending. And the same is true for sex toys, which is why Babeland is leading the way in ushering forth the latest gizmos for getting guys off. So, without further ado, here are Babeland’s Top Five New Sex Toys for Guys. Even McGyver would approve.

Top 5 New Men's Sex Toys:

Tenga Squeeze Play
Picture this: you’re alone and horny. In one hand, you hold the DVD remote, fast-forwarding to the dirty parts of your rented porn. The other hand? You’re holding your cock, wishing your palm wasn’t so darned familiar. In that moment, what would you pay for the perfect handjob or blowjob? $100? $200? What about $16-18? That’s the beauty of the Tenga Squeeze Play, a pre-lubricated masturbation sleeve ready to give your cock the ride of its life. Simply pop the top, and slide your erection into the Squeeze Play. Its ergonomic design makes it easy to hold while its textured sleeve works magic on your cock, and just a fingertip on the vacuum valve lets you control the suction. And when you’re done, simply toss the Squeeze Play into the trash. No fuss, no muss, and nothing standing in the way between you and a post-orgasmic nap.
RingO
Finally! A stretchy cock ring made from long-lasting silicone that’ll make you a "Starr" in the sack. RingO works the usual magic of the cock ring--increased sensitivity, temporarily thicker, harder erections—but with the quality of silicone and the colors of mouth-watering candy. Just pull RingO over your cock and behind your scrotum, and your firmer, beefier cock will drum up plenty of excitement in the bedroom. Because silicone is easy to clean and disinfect, you’ll be able to re-use RingO for every session.
Nexus Rider
For guys into prostate stimulation, the Nexus Rider is more than just a toy—it’s a power tool. Made from firm black silicone, the Nexus Rider sports chunky, satisfying dimensions able to quell even the most demanding of appetites. Its contoured shaft expertly cradles your prostate, while the anchor-shaped base works double-duty, keeping the Nexus Rider in place while massaging your perineum with rows of soft, kneading bumps. Once it’s nestled inside, turn it on and select from five powerful vibration settings, from a steady buzz to a surging undulation to a rapid-fire pulsing. Deceptively stealthy, the Rider’s AAA-battery powered motor is strong enough to rock your P-spot into tomorrow.
Innervibe Double
Hey, if professional athletes can get away with taking steroids and human growth hormones to boost their numbers, then there’s no reason you shouldn’t elevate your game by using PET’s (performance enhancing toys). The easiest way to start is with the Innervibe Double, a stretchable cockring with two attached micro-vibes. Wear it like a traditional cockring with one vibe behind your scrotum and the other at the top of your shaft so you can buzz your balls and her clit during penetration. Or, if you want to double her pleasure, simply wear the Innervibe around the base of your cock and let her get the full effect of the twin vibrators. Versatile and powerful, the Innervibe Double is a great way to get your name into her Hall of Fame.
BabeLicious
Of course, you’ve got to have plenty of wet stuff on hand (or elsewhere!), so we’ve created a lube that not only feels great going on, but also tastes great going down (pun totally intended). BabeLicious comes in four lip-smackin’ flavors-- Dulce de Leche, Chocolate Orange, Pomegranate Vanilla, and Mojito Peppermint—and because they’re water based and glycerin-free, there’s no funny aftertaste and no overly sweet stickiness. If great sex is like a great meal, then BabeLicious is your dessert. You provide the cherry.

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Best Men’s Sex Toys

Fri, 29 Jun 2007 11:53:00 GMT

Prostate massagers, penis sleeves, vibrating cock rings--whoever said sex toys were just for women hadn't tried these men's sex toys. So guys, it is time to rise, place you right hand on your balls and pledge allegiance to your cock. Your pleasure is yours for the taking. Forget the ball peen hammer and the cordless screwdriver. Here are some tools that you guys will like using a whole lot more. These are the five sex toys that should be part of every boy’s arsenal.

TOP FIVE MEN’S TOYS:

Aneros Prostate Stimulator

Aneros— Because of our ass-phobic culture, many guys are unaware that their potential for multiple orgasms is right up their bum. That’s where the prostate is, and the easiest way to reach it is with the Aneros. Cleverly sculpted and properly curved, the Aneros is somewhere between a butt plug and a dildo, designed specifically to stimulate the prostate from the inside while simultaneously massaging the perineum from the outside. The results are otherworldly, and all guys owe it to themselves to do some exploring.
Orbit Ring Vibe—Here’s one that’s certain to certify you as a stud. Simply stretch the Orbit Ring around your cock and balls, and watch as you become as thick and hard as a petrified redwood. Meanwhile, the attached vibrator will buzz your partner’s clitoris as she rides your cock into a glorious, orgasmic sunset. What’s that, you say? No ladies around to impress? That’s okay. Just rotate the ring so that the vibrator is under your balls and take matters into your own hands. Either way, you’re a winner.
Babeland Anal Beads—What’s the recipe for a face-melting orgasm? First, apply a liberal amount of lube to the strand of Blue Anal Beads. Next, slowly insert the Babeland Anal Beads into your anus. Then, masturbate or have sex. Let Babeland Anal Beads stay in ass until just before orgasm. Slowly pull from ass while coming. Feel the long row of beads bumping your prostate while you enjoy the gratifying release as they pop out of your anus. Revel in the glow of post-orgasmic bliss.
Blossom Sleeve— Your cock knows your hand like…well, the back of your hand, so to speak. Why not give your cock something new to think about? Simply lube up the Blossom Sleeve and slide it on. Between the slick, snug jelly material and the sexy, realistic texture, the Blossom Sleeve will transform an ordinary masturbation session into a wild fantasy ride. For an extra thrill, slip a small vibrator like the Silver Bullet Vibrator into the tip. More than just a date with Rosey Palms, the Blossom Sleeve is like taking your dick to prom. And this time, you can skip the corsage.
Hitachi Magic Wand Vibrator—Yes, it’s a vibrator, traditionally the toy of choice for women. But this one is different. This is the muscle car of vibrators. Plug it in, turn it on, and hold it against your cock. Brace yourself as the Magic Wand Vibrator puts the pedal to the metal and races you from zero to orgasm in no time. The powerful motor under the hood of the Magic Wand delivers time after time, making it the most reliable ride you’ll ever own. Not only that, but it’ll impress your girlfriend, too. Try this: with her on top, hold the Hitachi Magic Wand Vibrator against the base of your cock. Her clit will hit the vibrator on the downstroke while feeling your buzzing stickshift deep inside her. It’s more fun than doing donuts in the high school parking lot.

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How to Pump Your Cock: Helpful Hints for Cock Pumping

Tue, 13 Mar 2007 13:34:00 GMT

Pump and Cylinder Kit

Sensation Pump

Maximus

BabeLube

Premium Pumps:

A premium pump generally includes both a pressure gauge and a quick release valve and may also include varied cylinder sizes. To assemble: Connect the pump to the cylinder by pushing the male coupler on the pump hose to the female coupler on the cylinder. You will hear an audible click when the two cylinders are successfully connected. To disconnect the couplers, push in on the metal tab on the side of the female connector and the hose will be released. The female coupler attached to the cylinder may be turned counter-clockwise to release pressure from the cylinder and tightened by turning clockwise so the vacuum will remain in the cylinder. To avoid damage, never over-tighten the coupler. To reduce pressure, look for an air release mechanism on the side of the body of the pump. It looks like a small pin on a tire stem. Just push in and release while the cylinder is still attached.

All Pumps:

Before pumping, it is important to use a lubricant so that you will experience the least amount of discomfort. Many people have a brand of lube that they prefer to use. Some great water-based lubes are: Liquid Silk, BabeLube, and Maximus. If you prefer a long-lasting silicone lube, try Eros Bodyglide or Pink Lube.

Apply lubricant to both the flared area of the cylinder and to the body part which you are pumping to help create a good vacuum seal. Pump gently until you find the best comfort level for you. Each person’s comfort level is different. Do not be surprised if your labia or scrotum are pulled into the cylinder too, this is normal and can add to the pleasurable experience. To avoid having your scrotum sucked into the tube, pull down on your testicles as you pump and until the seal is established in the cylinder.

We strongly suggest that you do not pump for more than fifteen minutes at a time. Pump only to a level of comfort, never past that point. This will be different for each individual, as tissue types vary from person to person. Take it easy! If you experience any physical discomfort, discontinue use immediately. It is not necessary to use a lot of pressure to get good results. If your pump has a gauge, pressure levels should be kept between 4 and 6. If it does not have a gauge, please experiment with your comfort level.

Heat helps with the expansion and softening of tissue. Therefore, we suggest pumping while you take a warm bath or shower, or immediately thereafter. Premium pumps should only be used in a dry environment; disconnect the pump from the cylinder before entering water.

Some people prefer to shave or trim the hair at the base of the pubis to help maintain a good vacuum seal.Clean your cylinder with a damp cloth and mild soap. Do not use alcohol, as it will degrade the cylinder.

If you have diabetes or a circulatory condition, please consult your doctor before engaging in pumping.

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How to Use a Vibrating Cock Ring

Thu, 15 Feb 2007 17:42:00 GMT

How many times has this happened to you? You have active and rewarding sex life, but you and your partner are looking for a way to turn up the heat in bed and don’t know where to begin. Well, I have just the thing for you! It’s the VIBRATING COCK RING! They stretch! They buzz! They can even mow your lawn! OK, so, they can’t mow your lawn. But they can make the penis thicker and firmer while simultaneously satisfying the clitoris and/or scrotum with its attached vibrator, often resulting in house-shaking orgasms for two.

Why Use a Vibrating Cock Ring?

For those new to sex toys or just looking for a quick and simple way to spice things up, the vibrating cock ring (also referred to as a penis ring) is an excellent choice. Here’s why:

Low skill-requirement: applying the vibrating cock ring is no more difficult than pulling on a pair of socks. Simply stretch the ring with your fingers like you would a rubberband (with a finger or two from each hand on the inside of the ring) and pull it over and around the penis and balls. Then, carefully relax the tension, letting the ring slowly contract until it is back to its original size. Now, remove your fingers, and you’re done. Voila!
Worry-free operation: once the vibrating cock ring is in place and turned on, the only thing left to do is have sex. Unlike other vibrators, the vibrating cock ring leaves your hands free to massage, caress, grope, pinch, spank, or whatever else happens when your fingers do the walking.
Easy financing: the price is oh-so-nice for vibrating cock rings, which range anywhere from $10 to $55, with most falling between $16-26, perfect for anyone on a budget.

Ok, so now you’re convinced that the vibrating cock ring is right for you. But which one should you choose? Here are some tips to help you pick the right one.

How to Choose a Vibrating Cock Ring

Price: If you are looking to keep your expenses down, then both the Trojan Elexa or the Sonic Ring and Vibe are economical choices. At $10, the Trojan Elexa is the least expensive, though it’s made for one use only. The disposal vibrator is small, with a charge that should last you a good 20 minutes, plus it comes with a Trojan-brand condom. If you’d prefer something a longer lasting, the Sonic Ring and Vibe combo might be the better choice. Made of super-stretchy jelly material, the cock ring is made to hold a compact Sterling vibe that operates on just three watch batteries but packs a whallop. Coming in at a mere $16, the Sonic Ring and Vibe is a low-risk investment that’s sure to rake in pleasing dividends.
Simplicity: In terms of user-friendliness, it doesn’t get much better than the Contact High. No cords, no controls—this one-speed vibe buzzes only when it makes contact with something else, namely the clitoris, perfect for those who intermittent pulsing to constant stimulation.
Intensity: Need balls-to-the-wall vibrations? There’s the Orbit Ring Vibe, which boasts a strong internal vibrator encased in textured jelly material designed to provide the clitoris with direct, intense sensations. Wired to a pair of AA batteries, the Orbit Ring Vibe is the gold standard by which all other vibrators are judged. Of course, should you prefer a wireless connection, then you should go for a ride on the Blue Dolphin Vibe. A firmer ring with a soft, quivering nose on either end, the Blue Dolphin Vibe holds two—count ‘em, TWO—small but mighty Zippy vibes. With one end tickling the clit and the other buzzing the balls, everyone’s invited to the pants party.

How to Play with a Vibrating Cock Ring

So, now that you know which VC you want, here are a few tips to maximize your pleasure:

With stretchable cock rings, the rubbery material can sometimes stick to hair and pull it, particularly when you’re putting on or taking off your VC. To avoid having your pubes yanked, make sure your genitals are well lubricated.
Dry your hands before putting on the VC. You don’t want to lose your grip and have it snap your penis like a rubberband.
Different positions will net different results with VC’s, so be sure to go at things from more than one angle.
Try rotating the cock ring so that the vibrator is in a new position. This can provide greater stimulation of the perineum and scrotum, which can feel just as powerful.
When you are done, remove the batteries from your VC. This will ensure that they don’t run down when not in use. Dead batteries can be a real buzz-kill (ouch!).
Remember that while vibrating cock rings are typically designed with a male/female couple in mind, gay and lesbian couples can just as easily enjoy the pleasures VC’s have to offer. For gay men, what would stimulate a clitoris will buzz the scrotum just as well. And for lesbian couples, you can double your pleasure by adding a vibrating cock ring to your favorite dildo and turning it into a dual-action vibe.

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Mon, 03 Oct 2005 17:00:00 GMT

The Fleshlight Gets Robert Through the Night.

For over 20 years now the ladies have had their pick of high-quality sex toys, everything from durable, dependable vibrators to dildos made from silicone, tempered glass or even polished granite. But until very recently we males were stuck in the dark ages. For far too long, the only options for men who wanted to get off solo boiled down to laughably cheap rubber toys, the omnipresent inflatable “love doll;” which only someone with extraordinary suspension-of-disbelief powers would ever think of as “realistic,” or the old standby, our own two hands. Self-administered hand jobs not only get tiresome real fast, they have the undesirable side-effect of de-sensitizing you to the point that after a prolonged dry spell, you end up having trouble responding to the sensation of a real vagina when a sexual opportunity finally does arise.

Enter the Fleshlight. Two million dollars reportedly went into the development of this product, and it shows! The words “intercourse simulator” are not hype. The cyberskin inserts have about as much in common with the rubber “novelties” of old as The Ramones have in common with Britney Spears! The regular model, when properly lubed, does feel remarkably like a real vagina. I sometimes wish the handy hard plastic Fleshlight case was instead a pair of lifelike artificial buttocks to grab onto while using it, but that’s one for the suggestion box. The nature of the sensations and orgasm with the Fleshlight are almost identical to those of vaginal intercourse.

While no sex toy, however sophisticated, will ever replace sex with another person, the Fleshlight is a very close second which can make dry spells a lot easier to take, or be enjoyed for its own sake. We males finally have our equivalent of the venerable Hitachi Magic Wand. We now have a way to get ourselves off without becoming “palm addicted” and ruining our ability to respond to sex with another person.

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How to Choose the Right Condom

Sun, 14 Aug 2005 21:39:00 GMT

If you dread buying and using condoms because they’re uncomfortable or don’t allow for the sensations you love, well worry no more! Condom technology has come a long way in the last five years. Finding condoms that not only fit properly but also allow for maximum sensation is key to enjoying a safe and healthy sex life. At Babeland we've gone ahead and done the fun research, so are sharing the results below.

Condoms 101

Size Matters. Contrary to popular belief, condoms are available in a variety of shapes and sizes. Condoms listed as “snugger fit” are going to be a little smaller than a “standard” sized condom; condoms that say “large” or “XL” will be larger than a standard condom. The catch is that some snug condoms are only shorter and not narrower, while some larger condoms are only longer and not wider. Of course, other variations are possible too so you may have to try a few sizes before you get the right one. And while most American-made condoms are thicker and don’t allow for maximum sensation, Japanese and Swedish condom makers have found a way to make thin condoms that still maintain durability.

Lube it Up. Remember that most condoms come pre-lubricated, but not enough to allow for ongoing penetration. Please have your favorite water or silicone-based lube on hand (oil won’t be compatible with the latex condoms!) and add some often to keep things pleasurable for both of you. Unlubricated condoms are available for folks that prefer to use all their own, and non-latex condoms are available for folks with latex allergies. All condoms listed below are pre-lubricated, made out of latex, and flavorless unless listed otherwise.

Are you looking for a condom that is...?	Try...
Standard or regular fit	Proper Attire Condoms Choose to keep it simple or mix things up with one of four variations (Basic, XL, Color, or Dots). Proceeds go directly to Planned Parenthood® Federation of America, so you’ll feel as good about buying these as you will about displaying them proudly on your nightstand. Beyond 7 Dress to impress! Beyond 7 condoms are thinner than others, allowing for more sensation. Profil This Swedish-made condom is my favorite all-around standard fit condom. It's 25% thinner than average condoms and is made with polished latex for a silky feel and glide. Special note: all Swedish condoms mentioned in this article go through the most rigorous condom-testing process in the world, making them very trustworthy. Crown This Japanese-made condom is also thinner than average and has a soft pink tint that looks almost invisible when on. Very sexy!
Snugger fit	LifeStyles Snugger Fit This condom is not only snugger than a standard condom but is also 25% thinner to allow for maximum sensation. Mamba Another from the great Swedish condom makers, this condom is both shorter and narrower than average, on top of being 25% thinner too. It's also tinted a light yellow color.
Roomier or larger fit	Proper Attire XL The XL size is slightly wider than the standard Proper Attire Condom, and proceeds go directly to Planned Parenthood® Federation of America, so you’ll feel as good about buying these as you will about displaying them proudly on your nightstand. Kimono MicroThin Large This Japanese condom is 45% thinner than average condoms. It's also 15% longer and has 25% more head room too. Trojan Magnum This condom is one of the largest you can get. It's 15% larger than standard condoms, both wider and longer. Look for their XL's too, which are even bigger.
Made for maximum sensitivity	Kimono Type E These Japanese condoms combine the ultra sensitivity of superthin condoms with increased sensation due to the combination of studs and ribs on the outside of the condom. A step above the old rough riders!
Non-lubricated	Trustex These are by far my favorite non-lubricated condoms. They're a little thinner than average condoms and come in a fun assortment of colors. Add your favorite water or silicone-based lubricant inside and out before using.
Great for oral sex	Trustex Flavored The folks at Trustex also make these fun, flavored condoms. They're pre-lubricated, thin, and come in strawberry or vanilla flavors. They're also one of the only FDA-approved flavored condoms on the market. Great for flavored fellatio!
Non-latex, ideal if you have latex allergies	Avanti This non-latex condom is made out of polyurethane which is a great, safe alternative to latex. It's thinner than standard condoms and has a nice, silky feel. It also comes pre-lubricated, and unlike latex condoms it's compatible with oil-based lubricants.
All of the above!	Condom Sampler Not sure where to start? Try Babeland's condom sampler for a great assortment of the great condom qualities listed above. It includes my top picks such as the Crown, Kimono Sensation, Trustex Flavored and Inspirals!

Guide to How to Choose an Adult Video

Fri, 08 Jul 2005 15:30:00 GMT

Whether you're venturing into the world of adult film for the first time or you're a skinflick veteran, the dazzling array of porn available these days can be overwhelming. Luckily, we here at Babeland have been busy researching porn for years. (And fun research it is!) Hold on to your hat, and you'll be picking porn like a pro in no time.

Porn 101

There are as many different kinds of porn as there are people in the world, but the main types of movies fall into predictable categories that help you find what you’re looking for. Be patient! Sometimes it takes a while to find porn that’s right for you. Be ready for lots of fun exploration, and don’t hesitate to use your fast forward button!

Are you looking for ...	Try...	and...
Natural bodies?	Some of our favorite porn stars, including Chloe and Belladonna, have beautiful natural bodies. Classic 70s porn, amateur porn, and dyke porn are also great resources for women who haven’t had plastic surgery.
Better production values?	Any movie shot on film will have production values miles ahead of video or digital productions. Check out classic movies like Opening of Misty Beethoven or newer high-budget extravaganzas.
Woman-directed porn?	The good news is that more and more women are directing porn these days. Sex educator extraordinaire Tristan Taormino is producing some of the hottest porn on the market featuring professional porn stars.
A good couple’s flick?	Independent productions offer a lot of things that couples want – natural bodies, a little bit of plot, and a spotlight on women’s pleasure. Check out Xana and Dax and Matt and Khym by Comstock Films.
A plot?	A lot of folks want some context with their sex. Some people want to see sexual tension and a relationship develop between the characters. Others love lavish costuming and storylines. Love the Wild West? Pirates? Cops? Sci-Fi? Comedy? There's a porn film out there for you.
A fuckfest with no distracting plot?	You’re looking for a genre called wall-to-wall. It's a great choice for people who find plots unwieldy and distracting, and want to get right down to it.
Authentic dyke sex?	Dyke porn is mostly made by small, independent, dyke-run production companies. The casts are much more diverse, sometimes featuring butch women, transfolks, people of color, and an array of body types. Strap-on action, whole-hearted pussy licking, and finger fucking are standard.
Decent music?	You may have to negotiate on this one. If the low-quality background music in porn drives you crazy, it might be best to turn down the volume and put on your favorite make-out CD. New productions like Erocktavision are beginning to combine MTV-style vignettes with rockin' soundtracks.
A sexy movie that will teach you a few new tricks?	The best instructional films on the market couple education with sexy examples. Tristan Taormino is a good name to know in the world of sexy how-to videos.
Kinky action?	SM movies do not include sex because the directors fear being slapped with obscenity charges, so only a few brave porn directors blaze BDSM trails in their films.
Good-looking men?	Many straight ladies find their porn-watching aspirations are stifled by the lack of hot male porn actors. Two tips: 1) Seek out movies with well-known hotties like Mr. Marcus. Or find your own favorite porn star and rent all his movies! 2) Find a porn directed by a woman for women like Velvet Thrust 3) Go straight to where the hot bodies are and get some gay boy porn.

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How to Use the Fleshlight

Sun, 01 May 2005 23:06:00 GMT

The Fleshlight is hands down (forgive the pun) the most popular male sex toy on the market. Made of an incredibly lifelike material called Reel Feel Super Skin, this penis sleeve is what you might call the next best thing to being there. Here are some handy tips to get the most out of your Fleshlight.

The Fleshlight penis sleeve comes in two versions: the Fleshlight Mouth and the Fleshlight Vulva.

Wash and Warm Up Your Fleshlight

The Fleshlight is made up of a soft cyberskin sleeve nestled in a hard plastic casing that looks like a big flashlight (hence the name!). Unscrew the top and take the super skin sleeve out of the plastic holder.
Wash with a mild, oil-free soap and hot water; this will make it nice and warm.
Shake it to remove the excess water and put it back into the casing.

Lube Up Your Fleshlight

Once you've got your Fleshlight warmed up, find a nice water-based lube like BabeLube (the pump dispenser is very convenient here). (Don't use a silicone based lube; this will cause a chemical reaction and melt the Fleshlight.)
Put some lube on your hand and rub it inside the Fleshlight (it's like finger fucking!).
Now that your hand is covered in lube, slather your penis with lube, giving yourself a nice hand job so you are erect. If you're going to use a condom, now's a good time to put it on. (It makes for easy clean up, but it does diminish the lifelike feel of the cyberskin).
Keep a towel or Afterglow Wipes nearby to wipe the lube off your hands, or to get a better grip on the Fleshlight.

Get Down with Your Bad Self!

Slip your dick in the penis sleeve and have at it!
It's large so you'll need to use both hands on each side of the plastic container.
Try holding the Fleshlight's case in place and thrusting, or moving the toy itself back and forth over your penis. Try wedging the casing between a mattress, so you can fuck hands free.
If you adjust the tightness of the end cap, you can create a suction that feels pleasant on your penis.
To turn your Fleshlight into a vibrator, remove the end cap of the Fleshlight and insert a vibrator like the Babeland Silver Bullet.
Practice kissing, analingus, and cunnilingus skills on the Fleshlight.
Move with it! Try all those positions you've been dying to! Have a great orgasm!
We've heard from men who clamp it to their desks so they can get off hands-free while cybering on their computer.

Wash and Store the Fleshlight

Remove the insert and wash it with mild, oil-free soap and water. Let it dry completely.
Store the sleeve in a plastic bag with cornstarch; this will prevent it from getting sticky.
Put the sleeve back in the plastic Fleshlight container.

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Guest Toy Review: Orbit Ring Vibrator

Mon, 21 Mar 2005 11:25:00 GMT

Ross Enters the Stratosphere with the Orbit Ring Vibe

Meet our first-ever guest toy reviewer, Ross. He (along with our female reviewer, Madison) won our "Be a Toy Reviewer" contest, so they're both here to give you the low down on what toys get them off! We'll rotate their columns so you get a fresh perspective, and to give them time to play with their toys! Here's Ross, with his take on the Orbit Ring cock ring vibe.

Throughout history, visionaries have been able to fuse two good ideas together to sprout one superior creation: the toaster oven, the sleeper sofa, the peanut butter cup. Now, we can add the Orbit Ring Vibe to the list of ingenuity made possible by modern technology. The concept is simple: combine a jelly cock ring with a vibrator. The result: a delightful and easy-to-use sex toy.

One of the best things about the Orbit Ring Vibe is its versatility. On a cock, it can be worn three ways. Point it up towards your belly button, and the vibrator stimulates the clit for face-to-face sexual positions. Turn it south, and it will buzz your balls or your perineum, depending on whether your wear it in front of or behind your sack. In lieu of a flesh-and-blood penis, the Orbit Ring Vibe can be slipped onto your favorite insertable toy for external vibrations.

I'll admit that at first, I was skeptical that the jelly material would make for an effective cock ring. I thought there would be too much give, but it actually worked very well. It's easy to put on and remove, and it made my cock rock-hard. What's not to love?

My girlfriend was extremely eager to try it out. First, we tried it out with the vibrator pointing north in a female-superior position. Once we put a little lube on it, she really liked not only the buzz but also the textured surface of the vibrator. Coupled with my über-engorged cock, she had her first orgasm in no time.

Then we decided to change things up, turning the Orbit Ring Vibe around. Behind my testicles, the vibrator tickled my perineum, which was entirely enjoyable. It's not a feeling that would result in a direct orgasm, but the sensation was unfamiliar in a wonderful way. A little later, we readjusted, moving the vibrator in front of my balls. I found that, for me, the stimulation was pleasing at first, but after a few minutes, it began to feel like a slow-motion kick to the crotch, the ache steadily creeping from my groin to my belly. I say this with the admission that my boys are extra-sensitive, and the mere idea of CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) sends me cocooning into a fetal position.

Really, the only downside to this toy is the jelly material. I'm a silicone snob, and that jelly stuff doesn't hold up over the long run. And it can't be properly disinfected, which isn't a problem for me, but can be for those who play well (and often) with others.

That said, the Orbit Ring Vibe is a real winner. Compact and user friendly, this toy can certainly spice up your sexual outing. Plus, it's not too pricey. A measly $48, and this puppy is yours to play with, to rotate, and to make your toaster oven seems as archaic as a sundial.

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How Guys Can Enjoy Vibrators

Thu, 17 Feb 2005 14:47:00 GMT

Fukuoku Powerpack Hugger Vibe Fleshlight Petal Ring Finger Fun Vibrator

(Excerpted from Sex Toys 101)

A guy’s hands are usually enough to get him off, but who says he can’t enjoy the pleasures of vibration, too? Vibrators are known for their magical orgasmic power for women, but they are by no means a single-sex stimulator. Why not let some of that magic rub off on him?

Add vibration to your hand during your usual stroke. The Fukuoku Powerpack is great for this because it vibrates three fingers, but leaves your palm free to do its job.
Placing a vibrator at the the tip on the perineum (the skin between your anus and your balls) sends a buzz toward the prostate, a much-overlooked male erogenous zone. Or go for the full monty and try a buzzing butt plug.
Plenty of guys get off on vibration on the head of the penis. The Hugger Vibe cups the crown with fluttering plastic flower petals.
Soup up the the Fleshlight, the ultimate masturbation sleeve, by adding a Babeland bullet vibrator. Zoooom!
Slip a cock ring vibrator like the Petal Ring over your penis and you'll feel the vibration directly at the base of your penis. Turn the bullet vibrator so it's facing down and it'll also vibrate your balls or turn it so it sits atop your cock and it'll vibrate a partner's clit during intercourse.
Male and female genitals are analogous—what’s good for the goose is good for the gander! Slip the Finger Fun vibe on and run your vibrating hand up and down the shaft of the penis and around the scrotum.

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Bigger Penis! Tighter Vagina!

Tue, 01 Feb 2005 13:09:00 GMT

The Real Story About Numbing Creams and Erection Prolongers:

Pills and elixirs, creams and concoctions—it’s tempting to think that there’s a quick fix to our problems, especially when it comes to sex.But most of these sexual “problems” actually have much more to do with communication, attitudes about sex, and sexual self-image than they do with physiological response.A common theme among these products is reducing sensation and numbing nerves—but in our experience, this does more harm than good (if you can't feel it, how do you know when it hurts?).

There’s also no scientific evidence that these potions work—they’re not approved by the FDA and are sold only as herbal supplements.The manufacturers of these items play on people’s insecurities about body image and sexual peformance, hyping the cure-all aspect of their products in the quest for a quick buck. So we’ll give you the truth:there’s no magic trick when it comes to a fulfilling sex life.In this article, we'll take a look at some of the more common sexual desires that fuel sales of these snake-oil products, blast apart some of the most persistent claims, then follow up with some fun and sexy tools to help you enjoy better sex.

So you want to…make your penis bigger

What won’t work: Pills, creams, etc. Short of surgery, there’s nothing one can do to permanently enlarge the penis.Pills (herbal or otherwise) advertised for enlargement usually don’t actually do anything at all — at most, they can increase blood flow to the penis (acting similarly to Viagra), but that won’t result in permanent growth.Creams don’t work either. Because of the way the penis is constructed, what you rub on it will be carried away by blood vessels before it has a chance to sink into the tunica albuginea (the spongy tissue inside the penis).

What you can do:

First, check out www.erectionphotos.com, a website dedicated to dispelling myths about penis size. If you smoke, quit.Smoking limits the flow of blood to the penis and the less blood that gets in there, the less chance of your penis getting any bigger.
Think about shaving or trimming if you don’t already — less hair means you can see more of the penis, and that makes it look bigger.
If you’re still interested in exploring temporary enlargement, you can try a penis pump.These work by sucking in a lot of blood flow to the penis.Aside from temporary enlargement, they can feel really good, too.Keep in mind that if you have vascular or heart problems, you should check with your doctor first.Some folks who pump regularly over a long period of time do report permanent growth, but they almost always experience a loss in erection hardness as well.So you might look impressive, but your boner won’t be so…bony.

So you want to…maintain your erection to last longer in bed

What won’t work:Again, pills and creams aren’t much help.There are numerous desensitizing creams out there (such as Sta-Hard, which contains benzocaine) that promise to help you stay hard, but what’s the fun of being hard if you can’t feel anything?In addition, the creams can irritate some men and many women, and can rub off on your partner, making him/her feel numb as well.Well-known drugs like Levitra and Viagra are designed for folks who have physiological difficulties getting and maintaining erections; they can have dangerous side effects if not used correctly (including head and stomachaches, vision problems and cardiovascular-related deaths).For more info about these risks, check out this excellent article.

What you can do:Read the book The Multi-Orgasmic Man, which details several techniques to help you get more control over that wily penis, including certain pressure points that can help delay ejaculation.Some guys find that cock rings (like the Velcro or 5 Snap) help maintain their erections (and look trés sexy!).These work by constricting the flow of blood leaving the penis.Open your mind and explore other sexual options—there’s so much more to sex than just “insert penis here.”Or check in with a therapist or counselor to explore any mental or emotional blocks that can affect erection.

So you want to…have anal sex without pain

What won’t work: Many folks have heard of Anal-Eaze or other desensitizing creams.The thought of using these on your sensitive little butt makes us cringe.They’re pretty much made of the same things as the penis creams—the whole point of them is to numb the area on which they're applied.Now our question is, why have sex if you can’t feel it?Anal sex can and should be pleasurable and fun!Used anally, these creams can actually be harmful to your body.Pain is a signal from your body that something isn’t right.If you can’t get that signal from your body, you could be doing permanent damage to your body and not even know it until later.

What you can do:First, check in with yourself:is this something you’d like to explore for yourself?If so, grab a bottle of lube (preferably nonsticky, thick lube like Maximus or Slippery Stuff), relax and have fun.The anus has so many pleasurable nerves—go slow and let your body set the pace.It can take weeks or months for some folks to be able to relax and enjoy anal penetration, so you may want to start with just enjoying external stimulation.If you’re concerned about hygiene, you can take a shower and clean your butt with a gentle soapy finger (for a more thorough cleansing, check out the Anal Douche) or use a latex or nitrile glove.Try some great first-time butt toys like the Little Flirt or the Pendant.Anything with a curve can hit the P-spot (prostate); the Pro-Touch Vibe is very popular with the guys.

So you want to…boost your libido (women)

What won’t work: The results are mixed when it comes to Viacreme and its many cohorts.The manufacturers claim that one of the active ingredients, L-Arginine (an amino acid), has a cumulative effect, so that the more you use it, the more your libido increases over time. The other active ingredient is menthol, which is where the “cool tingling” feeling comes from.We had several staffers test it and the responses varied from “it didn’t do anything for me that rubbing my clit for five minutes wouldn’t normally do anyway” to “I had to run to the bathroom to wash it off because the menthol was too intense,” so use with caution, if at all.

What you can do: Many factors can affect libido, such as stress, diet, changes in the normal routine, mental or physical illness and medication (ask your doctor if your meds are affecting your libido—new medications come out all the time that may be less of a killjoy for your sex life).If you’ve been arguing with your partner for the past month, or if you were recently promoted to a new job with new challenges, it makes sense that you’re not feeling so hot and heavy.So check in with yourself or a trusted physician or counselor.

Communication is another key factor.Many women can have difficulty achieving orgasm, but we’re betting it doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with them physiologically.Getting to know your own body, mind and desires and being able to communicate them with your partner will go a long way towards a mutually satisfying erotic relationship.If you feel stuck in a rut, try jumpstarting your libido by making it a priority to try new things like reading erotica, exploring role-playing fantasies or just plain setting aside time to relax and enjoy your partner and yourself.

So you want to…have a “tighter” vagina

What won’t work: Vaginal tightening creams.There isn’t a shred of evidence that these work, and they can be irritating to your sensitive mucous membranes.They often contain ingredients like potassium alum (a substance found in natural deodorants) or, making its appearance yet again, benzocaine (a numbing agent used as an anesthetic).

What you can do: Do your Kegels!Kegels are vaginal strengthening exercises that can help you regain lost muscle tone; you do these by isolating the pubococcygeus (PC) muscles and alternately squeezing and relaxing them.If you’re having a hard time finding those muscles, they’re the same ones you use to stop the flow of urine; try it next time you go to the bathroom.These exercises can be done while you’re waiting in line at the bank or stuck in traffic.But they’re much more effective when you use an exerciser like a vaginal barbell, which is weighted to offer your muscles more resistance (much like the barbells in a gym).Check out the Smart Balls, Betty’s Barbell or the classic Kegelcisor. They really do help tone your muscles, allowing you more control as well as improving orgasmic response.

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Many folks equate sex toys with vibrators, and vibrators with women. But men enjoy all kinds of sex toys (including vibrators) and one of the staples of their toy box is the cock ring. A great toy for solo or partner play, the cock ring (also known as a penis ring) is a strip of material or a continuous O-ring designed to restrict the blood from flowing out of the penis, which can prolong an erection. Why wear a cock ring? Lots of reasons! They temporarily create more sensitive, intense and hard erections, and can even help some men delay ejaculation. (Of course, everybody is different, and not all men respond to cock rings the same way. For some, the intense sensations caused by the cock ring make them come faster.) Will cock rings make your penis bigger? Sorry guys, but not in the long run. They may enlarge it temporarily, but repeated use of cock rings won't result in any permanent changes.

Pick a Style, Any Style

There are many kinds of cock rings, but if you're new to cock rings, you'll want to choose one that's adjustable and easy to remove.

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Cock rings that fasten. Basic leather or nylon cock rings are great for beginners because they're easy to put on and can be removed in (literally) a snap. Those with snaps, such as the 5-Snap Leather Cock Ring, can fit a bit more securely, while those with Velcro closures, such as the Velcro Leather Cock Ring, are very adjustable and especially easy to remove.
Continuous, O-ring-style cock rings. The less expensive styles like the Nitrile Cock Rings are great for first-time users. They’re not size-specific (and despite their small size, they do stretch a lot), and they're not too difficult to get on. Some, like the Black Megastretch, are adorned with small nubs which can give some clitoral stimulation if worn during intercourse.
Vibrating cock rings. These offer an extra buzz to the penis or testicles and are also great fun during partner sex. They're typically rings with a small vibrating attachment, like the translucent Diamond Ring vibe or the Sonic Ring Kit.
Cock rings with fancy features. Experienced cock ring fans can delight in more complicated leather rings that include multiple straps, testicle separators, or weights, as well as rings made of inflexible materials like aluminum.

Get it On, then Get Off!

Prep your gear. If you're using a stretchy O-ring like the ones found in the 4-ring Pack, you might want to increase its diameter by putting it over a shampoo bottle for a few hours. Masturbate or fantasize in order to perk up your penis, as cock rings are easier to put on if you're semi-erect.
Lube up. Particularly if you're using a rubber or seamless O-ring, put some lube on your penis and balls, so the cock ring will slide on more comfortably.
Location, location, location. Cock rings typically are worn around the base of the cock and the balls. You can just wear it on the shaft (and by all means experiment), but cock rings function the most effectively when secured around both the scrotum and cock.
Put cock rings on when you're semi-erect. If you've got a solid cock ring, first pull the loose skin of your scrotum through, then drop one testicle through, then the other, and finally push your penis through. If you're using a strip of material that fastens, like the Velcro Leather Cock Ring or the Vibrating Leather Cock Ring, just gently lift your balls and fasten the strip around the penis and the balls, so it's resting between your genitals and the rest of your body.
Masturbate. Once you’ve become accustomed to the sensations your cock ring creates, try masturbating. If your ring is the vibrating type, you can experiment with pointing the vibrating portion on your testicles for an extra buzz.
Make a statement. Get into the fantasy surrounding your cock ring. Whether you're showing off a festive adornment as part of a striptease, wearing it under your clothes to show off your package, or telling your lover you're proud to be submissive by wearing a locking cock ring, play up the erotic potential of your toy.
Cock rings are fun for silicone dicks, too! Strap a colorful or sexy leather ring on a dildo to dress it up.
Share it with a friend. Vibrating cock rings like the Petal Ring and the Orbit Ring vibe were designed to offer female partners clitoral stimulation during intercourse. Position the vibrator near the top of your cock (or the dildo if you've got a strap-on) so that during intercourse it bumps up against her clitoris. Keep your body down parallel to hers and try slow, shallow thrusts to make sure she receives consistent contact with the vibrator. Or try it with her on top, moving in more of a grinding than up-and-down motion.
Accessorize. Cock rings lend themselves well to other sex toy combinations. Try using a penis pump first and then applying a cock ring, or adding a butt plug to your masturbation session.
Get it off. In general, it's best to take off your cock ring after about twenty minutes. Pay attention to the penis; it should never turn cold or go numb (clear signs you've had the cock ring on too long). To remove a solid O-ring style cock ring, you need to be only semi-erect so the ring is loose enough to feed your dick and balls back through. (Applying ice can help take down a stubborn erection.) To clean it try our Babeland Toy Cleaner.

Worn to look hot and ready for sex, or just to feel good, cock rings can double your pleasure and create a sexy package—think of them as form and function in one!

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Sat, 05 Jun 2004 15:45:00 GMT

by Rachel Venning

Cunnilingus is the holy grail of satisfying most women. So it's no surprise that some suffer performance anxiety. Cultural myths about nasty vaginas just add to the pressure. But cunnilingus performed well will endear you to a partner like nothing else can. So whether you're a seasoned muffdiver or are a late bloomer just getting started, here are a few tips to improve your technique.

Lick her like an ice cream cone… Big soft licks from stem to stern with a wide flat tongue stimulate all the nerves in her genital area. Go deliciously slow to make her feel like a yummy dessert being savored, or speed it up a bit and focus more on the clitoral area to push her towards orgasm.
Dive in. Build up the intensity level gradually. Once you're into it, use your whole face. Bury yourself in her pussy, get your tongue in as far as possible, use your nose for more pressure. Not only does this feel good physically, it lets her know you are really into her taste and smell. Hint: if your eyelids aren't sticky, you're not doing it right.
Insert two fingers in her vagina while licking her clit. Curl those fingers up towards your tongue, capturing her clit and G-spot between your mouth and fingers. As your tongue licks up pull down with your fingers; get a rhythm going.

Nubby G

Let your lover straddle your face. If lying back to be licked is too passive for her, let her hop on top. From there she can control the pressure and area of contact. To make this position even more fun, get tied down to the bed before she mounts you, and maybe she'll even boss you around with firm directives: "stick your tongue out!", "open your mouth!" "suck it boy", and so on. Bottomy munchers will, well, lick it up.
Mix it up. If all you do is lick up and down, up and down, ("fencepainting"), chances are that it'll get boring to your partner after a while. Vary your movements, add pressure, use your lips, breath and teeth in addition to your tongue, change positions, use your hands….Get your whole creative body involved.
If it ain't broke, don't fix it. Most women orgasm in response to rhythmic stimulation, so if you're in a groove that is building her up, don't suddenly change what you're doing. Finding the balance between variety and consistency is the art to being an oral expert.
Play the part. Combine your oral sex experiences with a variety of different erotic attitudes. Are you worshipping her pussy or are you controlling her with your tongue? Are you mystic lovers building an erotic energy ball together? Whatever your attitude, the psychic space you play in can make your sex connection that much hotter.
Suck her into your mouth. Gentle suction is a nice variation on the licks and downward pressure of most cunnilingus. While you've got a nice piece of her sucked in your mouth, lick it while maintaining the suction.
Lick her asshole. Use a barrier for hygiene, or if she is very clean and you don't penetrate, you may choose bare tongue on skin. The anal area is rich in nerve endings so all the varieties of oral stimulation--licking, sucking, nibbling--can feel wonderful.
Add toys. Toys are a natural complement to oral play. Check in with your partner about whether she’d like a G-spot vibrator like the Nubby G inside of her while you’re licking away, or whether she’d like to wear a butt plug like the Nubby G for an added thrill. You might also like experimenting with edible gels, like Babeland Lickable Oil.
Love your job. Pussy munching is best when both people love it. Doing it should feel really good and exciting to the giver. As good as it is for her cunt, it hopefully is for your mouth. It's something you're doing together. If you don't want to do it, don't. Performing sex because you feel obliged will kill that spark of sexual vitality in you quicker than anything. Follow the spark of your desire and you can't go wrong.

How do you know if she likes it?

With your face buried in her cunt and your ears muffled by her creamy thighs, it can be hard to talk about how things are going. So look for more subtle signs of her enjoyment. If she raises her hips to meet your mouth, that is a very good sign. A lubricating vagina and swelling vulva and labia that spread open as they become engorged are a sure sign that she's responding favorably. So is a growing clitoris. An all over skin flush, rapid breathing, and writhing are clues. Clutching the sheets is excellent, and so are hands on the back of your head pushing you in for more.

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Thu, 20 May 2004 23:30:00 GMT

What is Packing?

Packing is when someone who most likely does not have a penis puts something in their pants to create a bulge that resembles a guy's package. All kinds of people pack, from masculine/male-identified transgender folks to straight women. Packing can be done with a variety of materials, and for many different purposes. While "packing" frequently refers to wearing a strap-on under one's clothes, one can also pack more for the shape and feeling of a dick and balls than for functionality ("packing soft"). Products like the Soft Pack can be more comfortable and look and feel more realistic than having a rubber or silicone dildo in your drawers. However, packing with a strap-on ("packing hard") has its advantages, too— there are situations in which it's mighty convenient to be able to unzip your pants and whip out your dick.

Who Packs and Why?

Anyone can pack... Drag kings, straight women, dykes, femmes, butches, transmen (FTM's), Daddies, transwomen (MTF's), tops, bottoms, switches, intersex folks, Bob Dole, bio-boys with small penises, leatherfolk, vanilla lesbians... Everyone who packs has their own reason for it. For some folks it's just about sex. For some it's integrally related to their butch, boydyke, girlfag or transgender identities. For others it's about power, or about being subversive. Here are a couple of reasons why someone might consider packing:

So your boner looks as big as it feels
To fuck with gender
For genderplay in a BDSM context
For purposes of passing (as male)
To pick up gay boys (or get in touch with your inner fag)
Convenience (i.e. being able to unzip your pants and get a blow-job at the drop of a hat, without going into the bathroom and strapping on a harness)
To confuse people
To get in touch with your masculine side
To fill out those tight-ass 501's
To have discreet (or not-so-discreet) public sex
It feels good to have a bulge in your pants
So you can rub up against your lover or someone in a dance club and they'll know how hard you are and that you're ready for them
You don't have to carry your bag-o'-dicks with you wherever you go
It gets your girlfriend or boyfriend wet/hard
No need for penis envy...You can have one of your own.
You can have as big or as small (and as hard or as soft) a dick as you like, unlike biological males who don't get much of a choice in the matter
It is powerfully subversive
It's hot!

How Do I Get Started?

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