Sexinfo Glossary (G-M)

Gay

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Of, relating to, or having a sexual attraction primarily to persons of the same gender. Often used to refer to men, while "lesbian" is often used for women.

Gender Identity

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The gender one feels himself or herself to be, whether physiologically male or female. This usage is supported by the practice of many anthropologists, who reserve sex for reference to biological categories, while using gender to refer to social or cultural categories.

Genitals

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The reproductive and sexual organs of males and females. Also sometimes known as genitalia.

Glass Dildo

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Glass dildos elevate sex toys to an art form. These gorgeously-sculpted glass and faux glass dildos come in all shapes and designs; some are crystal clear and some come with hints of color. Most of these toys are made out of acrylic, Lucite, or Pyrex, a special glass designed to withstand temperature extremes and mild bumps.

What’s the attraction? Fans have discovered that these rock-hard toys provide the firm stimulation needed for G spot or prostate exploration. What’s more, glass toys can change temperature easily—so by warming one up in hot water, or cooling it down in the refrigerator, you can add a thrilling dimension to your sex play. In addition, acrylic and glass dildos are easy to clean, and can be used by people with latex sensitivities who may be allergic to rubber products. And let’s not forget their greatest feature—they’re simply visually stunning. Some glass dildos look enough like art pieces that you can happily display them on a shelf or coffee table, with no one the wiser.

A note about safety: While most glass and acrylic toys can stand minor knocks and bumps, they can chip and break; for safety’s sake, never use a chipped glass toy. Store them in a padded bag when not in use.

Check out Babeland's colorful array of glass dildos.

G-Spot (Grafenberg spot)

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G-Spot (Grafenberg Spot)

The G-spot is the common name for the paraurethral sponge in women, an area of spongy tissue surrounding the urethra, which can feel good when stimulated. All women have a G-spot, but not all women respond to G-spot stimulation in the same way. The G-spot is located just behind the front wall of the vagina (towards the belly), about two inches inside.

To find your G-spot, insert a curved finger, or two, towards your belly. Move them in a “come hither” motion, and apply firm pressure. If your fingers are too short to reach, try a curved sex toy. The more turned on you are, the more likely you are to notice a different sensation when you press the spot. The texture of the G-spot, felt through the vaginal wall, can be somewhat bumpy and not as smooth as other areas of the vaginal wall.

To explore G-spot stimulation use something curved for penetration. Fingers work very well, but there are toys such as the Crystal Wand, Babeland Nubby G Vibe, and the G-Whiz attachment for the Hitachi designed specifically for G-Spot stimulation. Curved dildos are more likely to hit the spot if you are using a harness. Doggy style positions, with the upper body slightly raised (for example, hands supported on the wall), make for more G stimulation with straighter dildos or male partners. Female ejaculation can be a natural outcome of G-spot stimulation. Female ejaculate is not urine, despite fears to the contrary.

Learn more in How to Find Your G-Spot or our from our anatomy lesson on G Spot and Female Ejaculate.

G-String

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A type of underwear consisting of a full front and a narrow strip in the rear. Also known as a thong or t-back. Babeland carries G-string style vibrators and harnesses.

Hand Job

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Slang term for manual stimulation of the genitals by a partner.

Handballing

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Anal fisting. So called because of the way the fister's hand curves in the rectum as it enters. When the whole hand is in side up to the wrist, the hand is balled up.

Harness

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A dildo harness fits around your hips and holds a dildo in place against your pubic bone so you can penetrate a partner vaginally or anally. Also known as a strap-on.

Heterosexual

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A person who is sexually attracted primarily to members of the opposite gender.

Hitachi Magic Wand

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Hail the Hitachi Magic Wand, the supreme vibrator among women! Perhaps the world’s most popular vibrating toy, the Hitachi Magic Wand has a phenomenal word-of-mouth reputation as a great clit vibe. An electric vibrator typically marketed as a “massager,” the Hitachi is about a foot long and sports a tennis-ball-sized head that feels great when used against the clitoris (it is not meant for insertion). The long handle makes the Hitachi Magic Wand ideal for slipping between couples who want a clit buzz during face-to-face intercourse, or for folks who have more limited mobility. Several attachments have been designed to adapt this toy for other uses, including G-spot and anal play.

At Babeland we’ve been selling this toy since we opened, and women come back time and again for this model. The toy typically lasts for years, so rarely needs to be replaced. The Hitachi Magic Wand’s only drawback is that it’s rather noisy, which can be a bit offputting for vibrator newbies or folks with roommates.

Purchase or read more about the Hitachi Magic Wand or the G-Whiz attachment or Off With Your Headsilicone replacement head.

HIV

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Acronym for Human Immunodeficiency Virus; the virus that causes AIDS.

Homosexual

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Of, relating to, or having a sexual attraction primarily to persons of the same gender. Can be used of men or women.

HPV

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Human Papilloma Virus, the virus that causes genital warts. Easily transmitted through sexual contact.

Hymen

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A thin tissue membrane covering the opening of the vagina. The hymen may be stretched or broken through sex, tampon use, or other situations (e.g., riding a bike).

Hysterectomy

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Partial or total removal of the uterus, ovaries, and/or cervix.

Impotence

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Commonly used term for erectile dysfunction, the inability to achieve penile erection or to maintain an erection until ejaculation.

Incest

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Sexual activity between relatives or family members; the statutory crime of sexual relations with such a near relative.

Infibulation

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The ritual practice of cutting off the inner labia and stitching together the outer lips; a part of female circumcision practiced in some cultures.

Inguinal Canal

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The passageway in the male that leads from the abdomen to the scrotum through which the testes usually descend shortly before birth. It is a frequent site of hernias.