Bicurious?

Dear Rachel and Claire,
I have been having feelings on and off for a couple of years now. I think that I may be into girls. How can I be sure?

A:

How sure do you need to be to try it? If this is a marriage-threatening, breaking-up-mommy and-daddy situation, research by reading lesbian books and seeing lesbian films. Look at the love films, not just the pornos. If your heart is breaking and your panties are wet, that’s information. If the stakes aren’t so high, just try sex with some women and see what happens. You don’t have to sign a lesbian pledge to get laid.
Meanwhile here’s some sexy stuff for you: The Crash Pad (DVD), Best Lesbian Erotica 2012 (book).