Q: It's for a friend

Dear Rachel and Claire,

I have a "special" male friend and he enjoys vibrators. Not for insertion, but for external stimulation. In fact I know quite a few guys who have liked this but it seems like there really isn't a product for them. Penile shaped vibrators could be adapted to this purpose I guess, but I am looking for something better suited and possibly not as big of an investment as the obvious Hitachi Magic Wand. Any ideas? Thanks, It's for a friend

A:

Dear Friend,

Thanks for your myth-busting letter. Bring me a megaphone. OK, now hear this: Men like vibrators! Vibrators are not just for women! A lot of the vibrators that women like for clitoral stimulation, the Hitachi Magic Wand, the Pocket Rocket, etc. feel great to guys on the shaft or glans of the penis. Or on the balls, the perineum- use it wherever it feels good! There are some vibes made just for men. The Hugger Vibe is a sexy blue vibrator is a sheath of flesh-like cyberskin with a silver bullet embedded at the tip. It’s a masturbation sleeve with a kick! Lots of men thrill to the sensation of a vibrator on their prostate. For that purpose any of the “G-Spot” vibrators have a perfect curve. G-Spot, P-Spot, they are equal opportunity orgasmatrons, for those willing to try a little penetration. So for any guy out there who is concerned that if his lady gets a vibrator he’ll be displaced, don’t worry. What’s a lot more likely is that you’ll have a toy that you enjoy just as much as she does. Have fun,