Ask Rachel and Claire

So you want some advice about sex. As luck would have it, sex is our favorite topic! In all these years of running our sex toy emporium, we've worked with thousands of customers to hook them up with the best sex toys for their particular needs. In turn, our customers, through their honesty about their desires, have taught us more about sex than either of us thought we would ever know! This column is your chance to get some answers, and our chance to continue the most satisfying part of our jobs: having contact with people who seek sexual growth and empowerment.

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Q: Dear Rachel & Claire, My Girlfiriend and I Can't Orgasm

My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year now, and both of us have been with men in years past. Neither of us has ever had an orgasm, which is frustrating! We have great sex but for some …
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Q: Dear Rachel & Claire, Fear of Pain

My hubby wants to try anal sex with me. I'm scared to death, it's going to hurt. I DON'T LIKE PAIN...especially when it comes to sex! We are both in our early 40's and we LOVE SEX. BUT,when he asks …
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Q: Dear Rachel & Claire, Husband Not Into Oral Sex

My husband told me he loved to go down but it lasted not even 2 minutes. I don't want to ask him to, I am very shy about asking. I have shaved, trimmed, tried everything, but he just won't. I go down …
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Q: Dear Rachel & Claire, Does a Virgin Need a Dildo to Get Ready?

I am a virgin and a friend suggested that I start using a dildo so I can have some practice, and so I don't bleed all over the place when I actually do have sex. Does this help? Is it a good idea to …
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Q: Dear Rachel & Claire, Can Cock Rings Help Him Get an Erection?

Will a cock ring help a man who is 70 and cannot get an erection? He is so depressed over this. -Cock Ring Curious
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Q: Dear Rachel & Claire, Making Rear Entry Position Easier

My boyfriend is 6'5" and I'm only 5'1". We are having some serious trouble with rear entry positions, and basically anything other than modified missionaries and woman on top. We don't really have …
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Q: Dear Rachel & Claire, Orgasms From Anal Sex?

My boyfriend and I were discussing anal sex and he says that women can have orgasms with anal penetration alone, but that men can't. I'm persuaded that it's the other way around. Who's right? -Back …
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Q: Dear Rachel & Claire, Could My Vagina Have Shrunk?

I haven't had sex in almost 2 years. I recently started masturbating and I have pain when I try to penetrate my vagina with my vibrator. Could I have shrunk? I met a new guy and I'm pretty sure we're …
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Q: Dear Rachel & Claire, Newbie at 43

I'm a 43 year old female who has never had sex. I will be having sex soon with a man I am dating. I don't want to tell my partner it's my first time, but I'm concerned about bleeding. If I use a …
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Q: Dear Rachel & Claire, How Do I Know It's an Orgasm?

How do I know when I have had a orgasm? --"?" about "O"
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