Babeland's Bill of Rights

This summer, give yourself permission: permission to try new things, to take risks, to look foolish... to become a great big heaving, yowling mess of desire and satisfaction. We hereby declare that it's self-knowledge, self-expression, and overall joy that matter, and we hold the following truths to be self-evident. Keep them in mind next time you're naked with someone (or by yourself). And to go straight to the source of these credos, check out page 100 of Moregasm: Babeland's Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex.
 

To explore this Babeland credo:Try these toys!
Remember, you are sexy — the whole of you, inside and out. Sex has a bigger zip code than just the crotch zone, so use your entire body: skin, teeth, head, heart, eyes, and everything else. Try the Babeland Body Essentials Kit for a luxurious full-body massage, or play with a blindfold like the Pony Blinders and a sensual treat like the Starburst Tickler.
Love yourself first. You deserve freedom from negative self-talk and internal criticism, but we all know that shaking off those messages is easier said than done. Grab a copy of our very own Moregasm: Babeland's Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex for a fun, supportive, and informative guide to self-love and a truly satisfying sex life.
Enjoy the journey. We love orgasms and wish you the best of them, but the big O isn't the whole point. Take your time getting there, and pave the way with delightful treats to get yourself ridiculously turned on. DVDs like Pirates 2, fingertip vibrators like the Fukuoku 9000, and books like Best of the Best Women's Erotica are sure to get you revved up and ready for more.
Own your own orgasm. Once you develop the skills and knowledge to make yourself come, you'll be able to help any partner bring you the most pleasure possible! Keep the self-love flowing with a classic clit powerhouse like the Hitachi Magic Wand, or try a new favorite like the powerful, rechargeable Jimmyjane Form 2.
Ask for what you want. Dirty talk is fantastic for keeping momentum while checking in about satisfaction and consent. To get that ball rolling, try a game like Susie Bright's seductively smart I Dare You, designed to get you talking, laughing, and lusting. Or try Sex Questions, a staff favorite, for a fun way to divulge past experiences and future fantasies.
Take charge of safe sex. We all know that safe(r) sex is important for countless reasons, but it can also be every bit as hot as the alternative. Try rolling on a flavored condom like Kiss of Mint or Trustex Multiflavored with your mouth, and you'll seamlessly pave the way to steamy safer sex. And some find the snap of a latex glove gets their hearts (and clits) thumping in anticipation.
Use lubrication. Wet and slippery feel good, and the juices our bodies produce dry up pretty quickly. Why not up the pleasure quotient by adding some slickness with our classic paraben-free BabeLube, luxury water-based Entice by Babeland, endlessly slippery BabeLube Silicone, or Babeland Naturals Organic Lube.
Laugh. Sex at home isn't like the movies — be ready for things to go wrong and have a laugh about it. Don't take yourself seriously, and you'll have more fun. Check out Tristan Taormino's Chemistry DVD series for some of your favorite porn stars having spontaneous, unscripted sex punctuated with lots of laughter and candid interviews. Don't be afraid to make a mess. Sex is messy, and that's all there is to it. The more you can embrace the mess and let go of any squeamishness, the more fun you'll have! When you're ready to clean up, reach for some Babeland Toy Cleaner or Afterglow Wipes... until you're ready to make a mess all over again, that is. Keep growing. Over a lifetime, your desires change... break patterns and try new things, just for the sake of newness and surprise. If you've always been curious about, say, prostate stimulation, try the Pandora or the Aneros Prostate Stimulator. Or if you've long been curious about kink, try the gorgeous Candy Apple Kink Kit for all your bondage needs.

This guide to sexual liberty is part of Babeland's Customer Appreciation Month during July. Find out what else we've got going on!


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