In search of the elusive G-spot? Or you haven’t found the right G-spot orgasm technique to take you right over the top? Here are our top five tips for perfecting your technique and maximizing your pleasure...
G-Spot Orgasm
Technique
By Ann Whidden
In search of the
elusive G-spot? Or maybe you’ve already found your female G-spot but you
haven’t found the right G-spot orgasm technique to take you right over the top?
Here are our top five tips for perfecting your technique and maximizing your
pleasure:
G-spot Orgasm Technique #1: Aim High.
Really want to be able to find the female G-spot? Set your
sights high: the G-spot requires a sharp angle for proper stimulation. If a
woman were laying on her back, imagine aiming towards the ceiling with your toy
or fingers at just a ten to twenty degree angle from the bed. The G-spot feels
like a firm area about the size of a peach pit, right behind the public
bone—the more turned on you are, the easier it is to find.
G-spot Orgasm Technique #2: Keep it short.
Yes, we all hear the hype about bigger is better, but
nothing could be further than the truth when it comes to finding the female G
spot. The female G-spot is usually just a few inches on the inside top wall of
the vagina (pretend you’re aiming up towards the belly button), so an
extra-long—or even regular sized—toy might bypass it completely. Try a toy
designed especially for the female G-spot, like the
Bgee. The short,
curved designs hook right into the G-spot.
G-spot Orgasm Technique #3: Think hard.
You might like to have your clit licked softly or touched
slowly, but most female G-spots need firm, strong pressure to build to orgasm.
Your own fingers might not be strong enough—or angled correctly—to reach. Try
an extra firm toy, like the
Pure Wand, or one that swivels, like the
Rosebud.
You might find that as you get more turned on, your female G-spot will respond
to more and more pressure from your toy or fingers. If you want to add even more powerful vibration with your G-spot stimulation, try the
Gee Whiz attachment with the
Hitachi Magic Wand.
G-spot Orgasm Technique #4: Assume the position.
Okay, there isn’t a ‘magic’ position, but because the G-spot
responds so well to firm pressure, you really want to be able to push right up
against it. When using fingers, crook them back towards yourself with a ‘come
here’ kind of motion, and prop her up on a few pillows. With a penis or strap-on, try a doggy-style position with her face and shoulders on the mattress and
ass in the air, or have her straddle your dick and lean way back—both of these
positions put optimal pressure on the female G-spot.
G-spot Orgasm Technique #5: Come here.
Some women need a little build up to a female G-spot orgasm,
so if it feels a little too intense at first, back off on the pressure or slide
around the G-spot until you’re ready for more direct pressure. The clit and the
G-spot are connected, so it’s no surprise that stimulating the clit while
really pushing against the female G-spot can be the key to taking things to the
next level. Don’t be afraid to direct your partner to fuck you harder (which
doesn’t always mean faster!), touch your clit, or do whatever you need to
maximize your pleasure. The
Form 6 or a the
Silver Bullet are a
great choice for clitoral stimulation.
G-spot Orgasm Technique #6: Repeat.
Okay we know we said the Top Five Techniques... but once you learn them, there's yet one more thing to do!! A little (or a lot) of practice can go a long way when it
comes to female G-spot orgasms. And remember, the trip is as important as the
destination—stay focused on having fun, and lots of orgasms are sure to follow.
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