How to Play with Breasts

Author: by Kristina Garcia

Ah, the breast!  What a beautiful, erotic creation.  Breasts are perfectly designed to bring pleasure to both the giver and the receiver during breast play, and this how-to is all about maximizing that enjoyment.  The tips below will teach you how to delight your lover by becoming a more sensitive and exciting breast aficionado. A note: we've written this article with women's breasts in mind, but keep in mind that many men experience nipple-play as an erotic activity. Some of the things that work on women can also work on men!

Stay In Touch

Just as breasts vary in shape and size, so do they vary in the type of sex play that they enjoy. While some women like a lot of stimulation, others may get off with the lightest of touches. And remember, as with any tactile play: be symmetrical. Either play with both breasts at one time or give them both equal time. Otherwise one breast will feel neglected, which can be a distinct turn-off.

  1. Begin by caressing her breasts slowly and gently. Try brushing the palms of your hands over the whole breast for a silky smooth sensation. This is a great way to get to know her breasts while also pleasuring her. Take this time to enjoy the sensations you're feeling. Consider adding a massage oil to help keep your moves smooth, silky, and warm.

  2. Get into the rhythm. Repeat your moves several times and be consistent. If you're working in a clockwise motion, do that on both breasts. Or try this move: place your palm over the entire breast (with the nipple in the center of your palm). Fan out your fingers as if they're the spokes of a wheel. Now bring them in toward the nipple and finish off with a slight pinch. Then repeat.

  3. Monitor her body language. Stay present and pay attention to her sounds and movements; this can help you gauge her level of pleasure, and adjust your movements accordingly.

  4. Don't guess, ask! Don’t hesitate to ask her if what you’re doing feels good to her.  In your deepest whisper, a question such as “Do you like that softer or harder?” is sure to give you the information you need while keeping the action hot.

Good Enough to Eat

Breasts are so delicious you'll just want to put them in your mouth. Once you've introduced her breasts to your touch, it's time to add some warm, wet, oral loving. Start to explore the different tricks your mouth has to offer.

  1. Lap it up. Begin with small licks on the outside of the areola to build her anticipation, then slowly move toward the nipple.

  2. Add her nipple. Gradually transition from licks to gentle sucking—yum!

  3. Suck, nibble, or bite. Experiment with a little light nibbling; if she's really turned on, she might want some hard sucking and/or biting.

  4. Add your breath. Blow on her nipples, alternating a little sucking or nibbling with your breath.

  5. Equal time! While your mouth teases one breast make sure you've got a hand pleasuring the other. With your mouth on her breast you're letting her know she's good enough to eat.

Extra Sensory Play

Creativity is the key to success, and breasts are an ideal canvas for all sorts of inspired artistry.  These toys can help keep things hot.

  1. Add extra tactile treats. A simple Tickler Feather to tease her breasts and nipples, partnered with a Silken Whisper Blindfold, will be sure to get her head spinning and body swimming. You can use any kind of textured fabric: fake fur, silk, or textured massage mitts can be a nice treat.

  2. Play with temperature. Dripping warm massage oil onto her breasts, and then gently massaging the oil into her skin, can become an incredibly erotic experience for both of you.  A Body Wax Candle is just right for this.  Made with soy-based essential oils, this candle has a low melting temperature so it won’t burn her delicate skin.  You simply light the candle, wait for the wax to pool, blow out the flame, drip the warm oil directly on her skin, and massage your way to erotic ecstasy. Alternate with ice cubes if you want to try out a hot/cold effect.

  3. Create a taste sensation! Edible creams are a tasty way to get your mouth in on the action.  Simply apply them with your hands—-or for added sensation, a cold spoon—-and start licking.  Chocolate Love Cream tastes great, and comes in three flavors: Mocha, Raspberry, and Chocolate.

Play Dress-Up

When it comes to fashion, breasts love being the Belle of the Ball. Nipple clamps are a wonderful way to play dress-up and to experiment with sensation. They come in a variety of styles, offering everything from light to firm pressure. Remember that when aroused, the body has a higher tolerance for pain. Nipples are a prime example—-many women beg to have their nipples pinched or sucked very hard when they're really turned on. Nipple clamps simply help get that job done!

  • For women who enjoy a lighter touch, try Tweezer Clamps.  They are completely adjustable and can be loosened to produce the slightest squeeze.

  • For women who get off with firmer pressure, try Clover Clamps; they’re designed to tighten as the chain is pulled. Or, consider a set of Sturdy Clamps; there are plenty in the bag and you'll enjoy putting them on breasts and other fleshy areas too.

  • For an extra kick, Kitty Clamps come with tiny vibrators attached to the nipple clamps and are adjustable to please most breasts.

  • Fingers, mouth, artistry, dress-up… Whether you use one tip, or all four, your breast play is bound to be more fun with a little creativity and a lot of lovin’.  Let your imagination be your guide, and you and your breast friend will soon be enjoying hours of pleasure together.