How to Use the Fleshlight

by Darlinda JD

The Fleshlight is hands down (forgive the pun) the most popular male sex toy on the market. Made of an incredibly lifelike material called Reel Feel Super Skin, though generally known as cyberskin, this penis sleeve is what you might call the next best thing to being there. Here are some handy tips to get the most out of your Fleshlight.

Wash and Warm Up Your Fleshlight

• The Fleshlight is made up of a soft cyberskin sleeve nestled in a hard plastic casing that looks like a big flashlight (hence the name!). Unscrew the top and take the super skin sleeve out of the plastic holder.
• Wash with a mild, oil-free soap and hot water; this will make it nice and warm.
• Shake it to remove the excess water and put it back into the casing.

Lube Up Your Fleshlight

• Once you've got your Fleshlight warmed up, find a nice water-based lube like BabeLube (the pump dispenser is very convenient here). (Don't use a silicone based lube; this will cause a chemical reaction and melt the Fleshlight.)
• Put some lube on your hand and rub it inside the Fleshlight (it's like finger fucking!).
• Now that your hand is covered in lube, slather your penis with lube, giving yourself a nice hand job so you are erect. If you're going to use a condom, now's a good time to put it on. (It makes for easy clean up, but it does diminish the lifelike feel of the cyberskin).
• Keep a towel or Afterglow Wipes nearby to wipe the lube off your hands, or to get a better grip on the Fleshlight.

Get Down with Your Bad Self!

• Slip your dick in the penis sleeve and have at it!
• It's large so you'll need to use both hands on each side of the plastic container.
• Try holding the Fleshlight's case in place and thrusting, or moving the toy itself back and forth over your penis. Try wedging the casing between a mattress, so you can fuck hands free.
• If you adjust the tightness of the end cap, you can create a suction that feels pleasant on your penis.
• To turn your Fleshlight into a vibrator, remove the end cap of the Fleshlight and insert a vibrator like the Babeland Silver Bullet.
• Practice kissing, analingus, and cunnilingus skills on the Fleshlight.
• Move with it! Try all those positions you've been dying to! Have a great orgasm!
• We've heard from men who clamp it to their desks so they can get off hands-free while cybering on their computer.
  

Wash and Store the Fleshlight

• Remove the insert and wash it with mild, oil-free soap and water. Let it dry completely.
• Store the sleeve in a plastic bag with cornstarch; this will prevent it from getting sticky.
• Put the sleeve back in the plastic Fleshlight container.

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