How to Worship a Lover's Feet

by Rachel Venning

All day long we tromp and stomp doing errands, getting to and from work, maybe even jogging or hiking. Poor little tootsies. With every step they collide with the ground with a force greater than the weight of the body above them. How faithfully they serve us, and how little love they receive in return. While a few devotees are so enamored of feet that they become fetishists who require a foot or a shoe to have sexual satisfaction, most of us are more traditional tits and ass fans. You may not need six inch stilettos to get you aroused, but cultivating an appreciation of toes and feet will make you a preferred lover.

1. Care for those cuticles. Give your sweetie a pedicure--trim toenails and well cared for cuticles will make feet happy and leave them looking sexy. Whether you're a man or a woman, having someone lavish attention on your feet is an expression of intimacy and tenderness. If you're new to pedicures set yourself up with one of those kits available at any drug store--it has clippers, a nail file, cuticle pushers and fun foam toe separators. Soak the feet first to soften them up. If you're a fan of nail polish, there's no end to fun painting possibilities.
2. Tenderize the tootsies. A traditional foot massage will help release the tensions of the day, put a smile on your lover's face, and perhaps soften her or him up for further adventures. Having your shoes and socks lovingly removed, the little lint balls whisked away from in between your toes, and the tired foot muscles tenderly rubbed and soothed is an ideal way to transition from the hectic demands of being out in the world to the intimacies of time with your sweetie. Spoil the feet with a peppermint foot balm. Reflexology, shiatsu and other massage traditions all use special points in the feet which are especially good for releasing energy. For starters try the side of the big toe, and the sensuous valley between the toes and the ball of the feet.
3. Let your tongue do the walking. To take that traditional foot massage and sex it up use your mouth to stimulate the tender spots. Pay attention to how your partner responds and, if you hear giggling, push harder with your tongue, or back off for a moment till the tickles subside. Licking, kissing, burying your face in both feet, and of course toe sucking will all feel wonderful. Take as much of the foot in your mouth as you can. It's hard to deep throat a foot, but it's fun to try.
4. Shine those shoes. Let your lover know you've got his or her feet in mind by buffing boots and shining stilettos. Shoe care is a sure flag that you're a foot-worshipping acolyte preparing the temple.
5. If your lover is a top, lick those shiny boots. This will give your lover a psychological and a sensory thrill. As you devotedly tongue your way along the arch and across the toes, press hard with your tongue so your partner can feel it through the leather. Put on a show--slide your tongue across the shoes, arch your back so your ass is in the air, and if you're very very lucky, you may get a spanking.
6. Toe fucking. Toes don't always have to be passive recipients of devotion--they can fuck too. Five sexy fat little piggies sliding against your genitals can feel divine.

Fancy Footwear

Shoes can convey certain sexual messages. Whether its stilettos, thigh high latex, or a well loved pair of workboots, shoes can add a lot to a foot encounter. If you want your feet to be worshipped, dress them like goddesses. At one sexy extreme are see-through plastic pumps, but your daily footwear can be plenty hot. In the dog days of summer, think toe cleavage. Any sandals in which your toes are squeezed gently together and exposed are sure to entice admirers. For a more authoritarian look, go with boots, the shinier, the better. Whether or not you have a date to appreciate your efforts, sexy shoes are a self-care ritual that will have you walking taller and feeling good.

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