order online or by phone
 (800) 658-9119

Babeland's Tip Sheet: Tips and Tricks for Using Sex Toys

Tip Sheet for choosing sex toys, caring & cleaning sex toys, G-spot, cock rings, how to use sex toys, and more!

Babeland's Tipsheet

Tips & Tricks for Toys

Sex Toy Tips Tricks
Download + Print
Babeland Tipsheet



 

 
Candy Colored
Glass Dildo


















 
Elastomer
Rabbit Habit










Care and Cleaning


Non-porous Materials
  • Glass should be washed with soap and water. Do not expose glass to extreme temperatures.
  • Pyrex, a heat-resistant glass, can be boiled, put in a dishwasher, or washed with soapy water.
  • Silicone is our material of choice because it will clean easily and thoroughly. To clean, wash the toy with soap and water or place it in the top rack of your dishwasher. Immersing silicone in boiling water for 10 minutes will disinfect it. Silicone may be shared safely after disinfection. Never use silicone lube with silicone toys; this will break down the surface of your toys.
  • Stainless steel can be boiled, soaked in a bleach and water solution, or run through your dishwasher.
  • ...more about these Sex Toy Materials

Porous Materials
  • Acrylic toys should be cleaned with soap and warm water.
  • Cyberskin (also known as Ultraskin and Softskin) is a delicate material; wash it gently with soap and warm water. Air-dry, then powder lightly with cornstarch (do not use talcum powder; it has been linked to cancer). Store the toys in a plastic bag containing a small amount of cornstarch to keep them from getting sticky. Cyberskin may contain some of the same chemicals found in jelly-rubber. We recommend using a condom on Cyberskin toys.
  • Elastomer is a soft, phthalate-free plastic. People who wish to avoid contact with rubber softeners can choose Elastomer toys as a hypoallergenic, durable alternative. To clean, wash with soap and water. We recommend using condoms if sharing the toy and for easier clean-up.
  • Hard plastic toys should be wiped down with a soapy cloth and warm water.
  • Jelly rubber is a soft rubber that cannot be completely disinfected. To clean, wipe the toy with a soapy cloth and warm water. Store it in a cool, dry place away from other objects. Jelly-rubber contains latex and phthalates (pronounced “thall-eights”). Phthalates are chemicals used as softeners or solvents. We do not have conclusive information on the health effects they may have. Because of their porous nature and chemical components, we believe the only way to safely use jelly rubber toys is with a condom, every time.
  • Leather will wipe clean with a damp, soapy cloth or with leather cleaner. Do not soak leather. Wiping with a 70% isopropyl alcohol solution (rubbing alcohol) will disinfect leather toys. After cleaning, you may recondition your toy by using a leather conditioner. Protect metal parts from tarnish by applying a coat of clear nail polish. Always let leather air dry and store in a cool, dry place.
  • Neoprene is a synthetic, rubber-based polychloroprene. Wash it with warm water and mild soap, then air-dry.
  • Nylon can be hand or machine washed.
  • Soft vinyl toys have a smooth, flexible surface that is easy to clean with soap and water. These toys typically contain much lower levels of chemicals than those made of jelly-rubber.
  • Vinyl will wipe clean with a damp, soapy cloth or rubbing alcohol.
  • Nitrile safe sex supplies are compatible with oil-, water-, and silicone-based lubricants. They protect against STDs and pregnancy. Masturbating with gloves, condoms, or dams can be a great way to further eroticize them. Buy differently-sized gloves in different colors to make it clear in the heat of the moment which are medium and which are large. To avoid cross-contaminating, use different color gloves for the butt and the vagina or use a marker to put an “X” on the gloved hand you will be using for the butt. Use dental dams or non-microwavable plastic wrap for cunnilingus and analingus. Put an “X” on the outside so when things get good and slippery you can tell the sides apart.
  • ...more about these Sex Toy Materials

General Tips for Longer Toy Life

We strongly recommend using a condom with toys that are made of porous material. This will help prevent transference of body fluids that can carry bacterial and/or viral infections.
  • Remove batteries when storing vibrators.
  • Never submerge electrical components in water. Use a damp, soapy cloth to clean electric toys.
  • Protect your water-resistant and waterproof vibes by making sure the rubber O-ring stays tight around the battery compartment. If the O-ring is missing or broken, the vibe is no longer safe to use in water.
  • For vibrators with cords, wrap a small piece of electrical tape around the vibrator/wire and wire/ plug connection points to strengthen them.
  • Rough edges on hard plastic toys can be filed down with a nail file.
  • If you are using a bullet vibe internally, put it in a condom and use the condom, not the power cord, to pull it out.

G-Spot Tips


The G-spot, or urethral sponge, fills with fluid during arousal and
has a texture that can feel bumpy or crinkly when felt through the
front wall of the vagina. Pressure on the G-spot can cause some
folks to ejaculate fluid, which is similar to prostatic fluid.
  • To find the G-spot, insert a finger or fingers 2–3 inches into the vagina and press toward the pubic bone with a rhythmic “come'ere” motion.
  • Curved toys, like the G-Twist and Orchid G, are good for G-spot stimulation. Thumping, tapping, and vibration can also feel great.
  • Try combining G-spot play with oral stimulation of the clit.
  • Some folks prefer indirect G-spot stimulation; try pressing down on your belly just above the pubic bone or applying pressure toward the belly button during butt play.
  • Experiment with positions that angle toys, fingers, penis, etc. toward your belly button during penetration.
  • A full vagina may block ejaculate, so try pulling out toys, fingers, etc. when you orgasm, and bear down.
  • Finally, G-spot response varies dramatically, so enjoy all the sensations—try not to make it a quest.

P-Spot Tips


The P-spot, or prostate, is an almond-shaped gland located
between the rectum and the bladder. The prostate produces fluid
that helps semen travel through the urethra during ejaculation.
During arousal, the P-spot fills with fluid, which can make it easier
to feel. When aroused, some P-spots feel similar to the muscle
between the thumb and forefinger when it is tensed.
  • To find the P-spot, insert a finger or fingers 2–3 inches into the anus and gently press toward the belly button with a “come'ere” motion. Use lots of lube and relax.
  • Try different techniques with your P-spot: stroking, massaging, tapping, vibration, or gentle thumping.
  • Play with your perineum (the soft, fleshy skin between the testicles and the anus); tapping here can access your P-spot indirectly. You’ll also be hitting the base of your penis.
  • Curved toys are especially good for P-spot stimulation—try the Aneros, Protouch Plug, or Pandora. Make sure toys have a flared base to prevent them from getting lost.
  • P-spot responses vary. Try not to be goal oriented; instead, enjoy each new sensation along the way.

Cock Ring Tips

   
Cock rings restrict the flow of blood out of the penis; making
possible greater sensitivity and a firmer erection. They can even
prolong erection. As with any toy, responses vary. Cock rings aren’t
recommended for anyone with vascular or nerve diseases. If you
experience any discomfort numbness or tingling—take it off.
  • Secure the cock ring at the base of the penis, behind the testicles, so that it is snug and comfortable.
  • For new users we recommend an adjustable cock ring because one can remove or cut it off if it becomes uncomfortable.
  • Non-adjustable or stretchy cock rings should be put on while you are semi-flaccid. Hold the ring under your balls and insert your testicles one at a time. Next tuck your penis through head first. Hold the cock ring in place until your erection secures it. Lube it up to avoid pinching pubic hair.
  • To remove a cock ring, wait until you lose your erection. Don’t leave the cock ring on for more than 20 minutes and always remove it if you feel any discomfort before then.
  • Experienced users can play with how long to leave it on. If you plan to sleep in it, use an adjustable cock ring and keep it loose.

Anal Sex Tips


Always remember our mantra to help you on your back door journey:
“Relaxation, Communication, and Lubrication”. When playing with a
partner, it’s important that the person being penetrated be in control of
what’s happening, especially if you’re new to anal sex. Let your partner
know what feels good and what doesn’t. And, of course, have fun!
  • Always use toys that have a handle or flared base so they don’t slip inside the rectum.
  • Always use lube—the butt does not self-lubricate—and begin slowly by stimulating the outside of the anus.
  • Ease your finger in pad-first to avoid scratching and poking.
  • Cover your toys with condoms for safe and fast cleanup.
  • Softer materials are easier on sensitive tissue and will follow the natural curve of the rectum. Bumps and ridges can feel good sliding in and out.
  • Angle your fingers, penis, or toy toward the front of the body.
  • Stick to the butt—going from butt to vagina can cause infections.
  • Numbing creams are unsafe—lube and relaxation are better.
  • Pull out gently and carefully.

Tips for Specific Babeland Toys


Emotional Bliss Toys:


How turn on/off the Femblossom, Jasmine, and Womolia:
Turn on the unit by gently pressing twice (double-click) the Power\Mode button within 1 second. The LED will illuminate. The same double click process will turn it off. For operation instructions, please consult the manual.

Snugglepuss
To open the Snugglepuss battery compartment, peel back the sleeve on the smaller end of the vibe. Pop off the battery lid and you’ll see a red tab. Once you remove this tab, the vibe is ready to go! This product is NOT a flip top cell phone and shouldn’t be opened like one. The unit should only be spread wide enough for insertion to prevent breakage.

Lucky 7 Vibrator

The battery compartment is on the bottom of the unit and it is a screw off/on part. Once the compartment has been opened, you will see a silver tab separating the batteries. Remove this tab for operation. Please note that the batteries must be inserted the correct way. Batteries improperly installed will result in continuous power and no variation in function or speed. The unit may not turn off without removing the batteries in this instance.

Pandora
Please note that when the batteries are improperly installed, the unit will provide continuous power and no variation in function or speed. It may not turn off without removing the batteries when inserted improperly, so make sure the negative side of the batteries are facing the inside of the unit.

Rabbit Habit and Elastomer Rabbit Habit

The shaft of the Elastomer Rabbit Habit should not be bent because the beads are on a track that can break. This can result in problems with the functioning of the rotating shaft. The Rabbit Habit is a bit more flexible and can be bent slightly. It is recommended that the unit is turned off and bent gently above or below the pearls. The shaft must be firmly supported to isolate the head of the vibe. You only need to move it a bit to have a wider swing or straighten the shaft for less swing. Bending the vibe in an “L” shape can break or severely shorten the life of the toy and is strongly discouraged.

Lipstick Vibe
Here’s how to get started: Twist the base of the lipstick open and look inside. You’ll notice that the top part, the one with the pink lipstick, has two small niches and one is slightly larger than the other. Pop your AAA battery into the base. Now when you go to screw the top part back on, be sure to line up the niches on the top part with the small protrusions in the base—small protrusion goes with the small niche. It should slide right in—don’t force it. If it doesn’t seem to fit, it means it’s not lined up right, so turn it 180 degrees and that ought to work! This is not a waterproof vibe; so don’t submerge it in water. Also, removing the batteries when not in use will help your toy last longer.

My Secret Vibe
To insert the batteries, unscrew the bottom of the toy.  Make sure that you are turning the silver portion counter clockwise to open the battery compartment. Insert 1 AA battery.  We have found that the toy works no matter which direction the battery is in.  Screw the cap back on by turning it clockwise. Turn it as far as you can and the vibrator will begin working. To turn off, twist the very bottom of the toy counter clockwise until it stops vibrating.

Form 6
To charge the Form 6, plug the charging base into an outlet, then insert Form 6 so that the metal collar and tip connect with the metal contacts of the base. The metal contact at the tip of the Form 6 is magnetized, so it will click in to place when inserted. Placing Form 6 into the charging base will turn it off. After you remove it from the charging base, press any button and hold it down for 2 seconds to turn on the toy.   Form 6 will be charged after 4 hours. It is not possible to over-charge Form 6.  If Form 6 is not in use for more than 30 days charge Form for an initial charge of 8 hours.   The Form 6 indicates when it is fully charged.  When you remove the Form 6 from its charging base, the buttons on the front light up.  The number of buttons that are lit indicate how charged the toy is.  One button lit indicates a low charge, two buttons lit indicates a medium charge, and three buttons lit indicates a high charge. After the toy has been removed from the base, hold down any of the three buttons for two seconds to turn on the toy. To cycle through the vibration modes intensity levels and some of Form 6's other features please refer to page 4 of your user’s manual included in the box.

Onye
To open Onye, hold onto the silicone grip section with one hand and the bottom of the toy, under the second silver band, with the other.  Turn the top of the toy to the left slightly and the toy will open.  Keeping a light grip and turning the toy very gently seems to work the best.  Insert 3 AAA batteries.  If this is your first time opening the toy, remove the black plastic insert from inside the toy before attempting to insert your batteries.  The batteries are inserted into the top of the toy, the portion with the silicone grip and on/off button.  2 batteries are inserted with the positive end facing up and 1 is inserted with the negative end up.  Make sure that you follow the diagrams on the inside of the toy. To close, make sure that the orange dot on the top of the toy is lined up with the tab on the bottom of the toy with the orange dot.  Some force will be required to close the toy securely as the fit is much snugger now that the batteries are inside the toy.  Slide the top and bottom together until there is no visible gap between the second silver band and the bottom of the toy.  While both ends are being held firmly together, turn the top of the toy to the right.   The turn is slight, no more than a quarter of an inch.  If you try to pull the two halves apart, they will stay together.  This is your best confirmation that the toy is closed properly. When you press the power button once, the toy will vibrate at its lowest setting, pushing it again will up the intensity to medium and pushing it once more will take you to the high setting. If you continue to press the button, you can cycle through the 5 different pulsation patterns and then the toy will turn off if the button is pressed again after the last pulsation pattern.  To turn off the toy without going through all the settings, simply hold down the button until the toy turns off. Remember that the turns of the 2 halves of the Onye are only slight. Always match up the orange dots.  You can overturn the two halves, so if your Onye won’t stay together when the batteries are not inside, take a deep breath and try again more gently. Be careful with the orange tabs and remember that the Onye is a delicate toy and can be broken if too much force is applied.

Fun Factory Toys


How To Open And Insert Batteries in the Heartbreaker, G-Twist and Gallant:

  1. Place your fingers at the base of the vibe.
  2. Squeeze on the finger imprints in the hard plastic, light-gray portion of the base.
  3. Pull the dark gray base (with the twist-on switch) straight away from the light-gray portion.  (NOTE:  Do not twist the dark gray portion of the base, or you may break the locking mechanism.  You will need to pull with some force, but make sure you’re also squeezing at the imprints.)
  4. Put the AA batteries inside, with one “up” and one “down.”  The battery with the positive side facing “up” should go toward the back of the vibe, to create a tighter seal.
  5. Push the battery cover back on until you hear it “snap” shut.

    These vibes are splash-proof- so feel free to take them in the shower, however we do not recommend total submersion.


How To Open the Mini Heartbreaker and the Layaspot:

  1. Insert the batteries, one facing up (left) and one facing down (right) according to the figures drawn on the battery compartment.
  2. Close cap properly.
  3. Push and hold the + button to turn On.
  4. For a desirable speed, push and hold the + button continuously.
  5. To Lower Speed or turn Off the vibrator, push and hold the – button continuously (Mini’s are silicone base so you have to push with pressure.)

    These vibes are completely waterproof- so feel free to take them in the tub or pool for an aquatic delight!

Also Recommended:

Created by elle
Last modified 2008-04-16 12:54 PM

Sign up for our bi-monthly newsletter!

Enter your email address below

Order by Phone (800)658-9119

Zagat Survey Best Shopping Experience
 

Buyer's Guides

How to Choose ...

Vibrators

vibratorsWays to use a vibrator, plus choosing vibrators for the G-spot, clitoris, prostate and more

Sex Toy Gifts

sex toy giftsSex toys make great gifts for any occasion. Choose from romantic gift kits, pre-wrapped sexy gifts products, and other sensuals. more

Dildos

dildosSilicone dildos, glass dildos or double dildos? Find help with materials, sizes, styles, and harness-compatibility. more

Adult DVDs

adult dvdsA discriminating guide to the best of adult videos and DVDs, with an emphasis on what women like. more

Lubricant

lubricantFind the personal lubricant that best suits your needs by answering some simple questions in this easy guide. more

Anal Toys

anal toysAn intro to anal sex, with help on choosing and using butt plugs, anal beads, anal dildos and other butt toys. more

G-Spot

g-spot dildosHelp with finding your G-spot, plus which G-spot vibrators and dildos will get the job done! more

Sex Toy Materials

sex toy materialsWhat's your sex toy made of? Learn about silicone, elastomer, vinyl, acrylic and other common sex toy materials. more