Tip Sheet for choosing sex toys, caring & cleaning sex toys, G-spot, cock rings, how to use sex toys, and more!
Babeland's Tipsheet
Tips & Tricks for Toys
- Care and Cleaning:
* Non-porous Materials
* Porous Materials
* General Toy Care Tips - G-Spot Tips
- P-Spot Tips (Prostate)
- Cock Ring Tips
- Anal Sex Tips
- Tips for Toys: Emotional Bliss Toys, Lucky 7, Snugglepuss, Pandora, Rabbit Habit, Lipstick, Fun Factory Toys, Onye, Silk Touch Egg, Form 6, Hummingbird, My Secret Vibe, Maia
Care and Cleaning
Non-porous Materials
- Glass should be washed with soap and water.
Do not expose glass to extreme temperatures.
- Pyrex, a heat-resistant glass, can be boiled,
put in a dishwasher, or washed with soapy water.
- Silicone is our material of choice because it
will clean easily and thoroughly. To clean, wash
the toy with soap and water or place it in the
top rack of your dishwasher. Immersing silicone
in boiling water for 10 minutes will disinfect it.
Silicone may be shared safely after disinfection.
Never use silicone lube with silicone toys; this
will break down the surface of your toys.
- Stainless steel can be boiled, soaked
in a bleach and water solution, or
run through your dishwasher.
- ...more about these Sex Toy Materials
Porous Materials
- Acrylic toys should be cleaned
with soap and warm water.
- Cyberskin (also known as Ultraskin and Softskin)
is a delicate material; wash it gently with soap
and warm water. Air-dry, then powder lightly with
cornstarch (do not use talcum powder; it has been
linked to cancer). Store the toys in a plastic bag
containing a small amount of cornstarch to keep
them from getting sticky. Cyberskin may contain
some of the same chemicals found in jelly-rubber.
We recommend using a condom on Cyberskin toys.
- Elastomer is a soft, phthalate-free plastic. People
who wish to avoid contact with rubber softeners
can choose Elastomer toys as a hypoallergenic,
durable alternative. To clean, wash with soap
and water. We recommend using condoms if
sharing the toy and for easier clean-up.
- Hard plastic toys should be wiped down
with a soapy cloth and warm water.
- Jelly rubber is a soft rubber that cannot be
completely disinfected. To clean, wipe the toy with
a soapy cloth and warm water. Store it in a cool, dry
place away from other objects. Jelly-rubber contains
latex and phthalates (pronounced “thall-eights”).
Phthalates are chemicals used as softeners or
solvents. We do not have conclusive information on
the health effects they may have. Because of
their porous nature and chemical components,
we believe the only way to safely use jelly rubber
toys is with a condom, every time.
- Leather will wipe clean with a damp, soapy
cloth or with leather cleaner. Do not soak
leather. Wiping with a 70% isopropyl alcohol
solution (rubbing alcohol) will disinfect leather
toys. After cleaning, you may recondition
your toy by using a leather conditioner.
Protect metal parts from tarnish by applying
a coat of clear nail polish. Always let leather
air dry and store in a cool, dry place.
- Neoprene is a synthetic, rubber-based
polychloroprene. Wash it with warm
water and mild soap, then air-dry.
- Nylon can be hand or machine washed.
- Soft vinyl toys have a smooth, flexible surface
that is easy to clean with soap and water.
These toys typically contain much lower levels
of chemicals than those made of jelly-rubber.
- Vinyl will wipe clean with a damp,
soapy cloth or rubbing alcohol.
- Nitrile safe sex supplies are compatible with oil-, water-, and silicone-based
lubricants. They protect against STDs and pregnancy.
Masturbating with gloves, condoms, or dams can
be a great way to further eroticize them.
Buy differently-sized gloves in different colors to make it clear in
the heat of the moment which are medium and which are large.
To avoid cross-contaminating, use different color gloves
for the butt and the vagina or use a marker to put an “X”
on the gloved hand you will be using for the butt.
Use dental dams or non-microwavable plastic wrap for cunnilingus
and analingus. Put an “X” on the outside so when things get good
and slippery you can tell the sides apart.
- ...more about these Sex Toy Materials
General Tips for Longer Toy Life
We strongly recommend using a condom with toys that are
made of porous material. This will help prevent transference
of body fluids that can carry bacterial and/or viral infections.
- Remove batteries when storing vibrators.
- Never submerge electrical components in water.
Use a damp, soapy cloth to clean electric toys.
- Protect your water-resistant and waterproof vibes
by making sure the rubber O-ring stays tight around
the battery compartment. If the O-ring is missing or
broken, the vibe is no longer safe to use in water.
- For vibrators with cords, wrap a small piece of
electrical tape around the vibrator/wire and wire/
plug connection points to strengthen them.
- Rough edges on hard plastic toys can
be filed down with a nail file.
- If you are using a bullet vibe internally, put it in a condom
and use the condom, not the power cord, to pull it out.
G-Spot Tips
The G-spot, or urethral sponge, fills with fluid during arousal and
has a texture that can feel bumpy or crinkly when felt through the
front wall of the vagina. Pressure on the G-spot can cause some
folks to ejaculate fluid, which is similar to prostatic fluid.
- To find the G-spot, insert a finger or fingers 2–3 inches into the vagina and press toward the pubic bone with a rhythmic “come'ere” motion.
- Curved toys, like the G-Twist and Orchid G, are good for G-spot stimulation. Thumping, tapping, and vibration can also feel great.
- Try combining G-spot play with oral stimulation of the clit.
- Some folks prefer indirect G-spot stimulation; try pressing down on your belly just above the pubic bone or applying pressure toward the belly button during butt play.
- Experiment with positions that angle toys, fingers, penis, etc. toward your belly button during penetration.
- A full vagina may block ejaculate, so try pulling out toys, fingers, etc. when you orgasm, and bear down.
- Finally, G-spot response varies dramatically, so enjoy all the sensations—try not to make it a quest.
P-Spot Tips
The P-spot, or prostate, is an almond-shaped gland located
between the rectum and the bladder. The prostate produces fluid
that helps semen travel through the urethra during ejaculation.
During arousal, the P-spot fills with fluid, which can make it easier
to feel. When aroused, some P-spots feel similar to the muscle
between the thumb and forefinger when it is tensed.
- To find the P-spot, insert a finger or fingers 2–3 inches into the anus and gently press toward the belly button with a “come'ere” motion. Use lots of lube and relax.
- Try different techniques with your P-spot: stroking, massaging, tapping, vibration, or gentle thumping.
- Play with your perineum (the soft, fleshy skin between the testicles and the anus); tapping here can access your P-spot indirectly. You’ll also be hitting the base of your penis.
- Curved toys are especially good for P-spot stimulation—try the Aneros, Protouch Plug, or Pandora. Make sure toys have a flared base to prevent them from getting lost.
- P-spot responses vary. Try not to be goal oriented; instead, enjoy each new sensation along the way.
Cock Ring Tips
Cock rings restrict the flow of blood out of the penis; making
possible greater sensitivity and a firmer erection. They can even
prolong erection. As with any toy, responses vary. Cock rings aren’t
recommended for anyone with vascular or nerve diseases. If you
experience any discomfort numbness or tingling—take it off.
- Secure the cock ring at the base of the penis, behind the testicles, so that it is snug and comfortable.
- For new users we recommend an adjustable cock ring because one can remove or cut it off if it becomes uncomfortable.
- Non-adjustable or stretchy cock rings should be put on while you are semi-flaccid. Hold the ring under your balls and insert your testicles one at a time. Next tuck your penis through head first. Hold the cock ring in place until your erection secures it. Lube it up to avoid pinching pubic hair.
- To remove a cock ring, wait until you lose your erection. Don’t leave the cock ring on for more than 20 minutes and always remove it if you feel any discomfort before then.
- Experienced users can play with how long to leave it on. If you plan to sleep in it, use an adjustable cock ring and keep it loose.
Anal Sex Tips
Always remember our mantra to help you on your back door journey:
“Relaxation, Communication, and Lubrication”. When playing with a
partner, it’s important that the person being penetrated be in control of
what’s happening, especially if you’re new to anal sex. Let your partner
know what feels good and what doesn’t. And, of course, have fun!
- Always use toys that have a handle or flared base so they don’t slip inside the rectum.
- Always use lube—the butt does not self-lubricate—and begin slowly by stimulating the outside of the anus.
- Ease your finger in pad-first to avoid scratching and poking.
- Cover your toys with condoms for safe and fast cleanup.
- Softer materials are easier on sensitive tissue and will follow the natural curve of the rectum. Bumps and ridges can feel good sliding in and out.
- Angle your fingers, penis, or toy toward the front of the body.
- Stick to the butt—going from butt to vagina can cause infections.
- Numbing creams are unsafe—lube and relaxation are better.
- Pull out gently and carefully.
Tips for Specific Babeland Toys
How turn on/off the Femblossom, Jasmine, and Womolia:
Turn on the unit by gently pressing twice (double-click) the Power\Mode button within 1 second. The LED will illuminate. The same double click process will turn it off. For operation instructions, please consult the manual.
Snugglepuss
To open the Snugglepuss battery compartment, peel back the sleeve on the smaller end of the vibe. Pop off the battery lid and you’ll see a red tab. Once you remove this tab, the vibe is ready to go! This product is NOT a flip top cell phone and shouldn’t be opened like one. The unit should only be spread wide enough for insertion to prevent breakage.
Lucky 7 Vibrator
The battery compartment is on the bottom of the unit and it is a screw off/on part. Once the compartment has been opened, you will see a silver tab separating the batteries. Remove this tab for operation. Please note that the batteries must be inserted the correct way. Batteries improperly installed will result in continuous power and no variation in function or speed. The unit may not turn off without removing the batteries in this instance.
Pandora
Please note that when the batteries are improperly installed, the unit will provide continuous power and no variation in function or speed. It may not turn off without removing the batteries when inserted improperly, so make sure the negative side of the batteries are facing the inside of the unit.
Rabbit Habit and Elastomer Rabbit Habit
The shaft of the Elastomer Rabbit Habit should not be bent because the beads are on a track that can break. This can result in problems with the functioning of the rotating shaft. The Rabbit Habit is a bit more flexible and can be bent slightly. It is recommended that the unit is turned off and bent gently above or below the pearls. The shaft must be firmly supported to isolate the head of the vibe. You only need to move it a bit to have a wider swing or straighten the shaft for less swing. Bending the vibe in an “L” shape can break or severely shorten the life of the toy and is strongly discouraged.
Lipstick VibeHere’s how to get started: Twist the base of the lipstick open and
look inside. You’ll notice that the top part, the one with the pink lipstick,
has two small niches and one is slightly larger than the other. Pop your AAA
battery into the base. Now when you go to screw the top part back on, be sure
to line up the niches on the top part with the small protrusions in the
base—small protrusion goes with the small niche. It should slide right in—don’t
force it. If it doesn’t seem to fit, it means it’s not lined up right, so turn
it 180 degrees and that ought to work! This
is not a waterproof vibe; so don’t submerge it in water. Also, removing the
batteries when not in use will help your toy last longer.
My Secret VibeTo insert the batteries, unscrew the bottom of the toy. Make sure that you are turning the silver portion counter clockwise to open the battery compartment. Insert 1 AA battery. We have found that the toy works no matter which direction the battery is in. Screw the cap back on by turning it clockwise. Turn it as far as you can and the vibrator will begin working. To turn off, twist the very bottom of the toy counter clockwise until it stops vibrating.
Form 6
To charge the Form 6, plug the charging base into an outlet, then insert Form 6 so that the metal collar and tip connect with the metal contacts of the base. The metal contact at the tip of the Form 6 is magnetized, so it will click in to place when inserted. Placing Form 6 into the charging base will turn it off. After you remove it from the charging base, press any button and hold it down for 2 seconds to turn on the toy. Form 6 will be charged after 4 hours. It is not possible to over-charge Form 6. If Form 6 is not in use for more than 30 days charge Form for an initial charge of 8 hours. The Form 6 indicates when it is fully charged. When you remove the Form 6 from its charging base, the buttons on the front light up. The number of buttons that are lit indicate how charged the toy is. One button lit indicates a low charge, two buttons lit indicates a medium charge, and three buttons lit indicates a high charge. After the toy has been removed from the base, hold down any of the three buttons for two seconds to turn on the toy. To cycle through the vibration modes intensity levels and some of Form 6's other features please refer to page 4 of your user’s manual included in the box.
OnyeTo open Onye, hold onto the silicone grip section with one hand and the bottom of the toy, under the second silver band, with the other. Turn the top of the toy to the left slightly and the toy will open. Keeping a light grip and turning the toy very gently seems to work the best. Insert 3 AAA batteries. If this is your first time opening the toy, remove the black plastic insert from inside the toy before attempting to insert your batteries. The batteries are inserted into the top of the toy, the portion with the silicone grip and on/off button. 2 batteries are inserted with the positive end facing up and 1 is inserted with the negative end up. Make sure that you follow the diagrams on the inside of the toy. To close, make sure that the orange dot on the top of the toy is lined up with the tab on the bottom of the toy with the orange dot. Some force will be required to close the toy securely as the fit is much snugger now that the batteries are inside the toy. Slide the top and bottom together until there is no visible gap between the second silver band and the bottom of the toy. While both ends are being held firmly together, turn the top of the toy to the right. The turn is slight, no more than a quarter of an inch. If you try to pull the two halves apart, they will stay together. This is your best confirmation that the toy is closed properly. When you press the power button once, the toy will vibrate at its lowest setting, pushing it again will up the intensity to medium and pushing it once more will take you to the high setting. If you continue to press the button, you can cycle through the 5 different pulsation patterns and then the toy will turn off if the button is pressed again after the last pulsation pattern. To turn off the toy without going through all the settings, simply hold down the button until the toy turns off. Remember that the turns of the 2 halves of the Onye are only slight. Always match up the orange dots. You can overturn the two halves, so if your Onye won’t stay together when the batteries are not inside, take a deep breath and try again more gently. Be careful with the orange tabs and remember that the Onye is a delicate toy and can be broken if too much force is applied.
Fun Factory Toys
How To Open
And Insert Batteries in the Heartbreaker, G-Twist and Gallant:
- Place your fingers at the base
of the vibe.
- Squeeze on the finger imprints
in the hard plastic, light-gray portion of the base.
- Pull the dark gray base (with
the twist-on switch) straight away from the light-gray portion. (NOTE:
Do not twist the dark gray portion of the base, or you may break
the locking mechanism. You will
need to pull with some force, but make sure you’re also squeezing at the
imprints.)
- Put the AA batteries inside,
with one “up” and one “down.” The
battery with the positive side facing “up” should go toward the back of
the vibe, to create a tighter seal.
- Push the battery cover back on
until you hear it “snap” shut.
These vibes are splash-proof- so feel free to take them in
the shower, however we do not recommend total submersion.
How To Open
the Mini Heartbreaker and the Layaspot:
- Insert the batteries, one
facing up (left) and one facing down (right) according to the figures
drawn on the battery compartment.
- Close cap properly.
- Push and hold the + button to
turn On.
- For a desirable speed, push and
hold the + button continuously.
- To Lower Speed or turn Off the
vibrator, push and hold the – button continuously (Mini’s are silicone
base so you have to push with pressure.)
These vibes are completely waterproof- so feel free to take
them in the tub or pool for an aquatic delight!
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