Restrain Yourself (Please) with Couple’s Bondage Toys

Do you fantasize about being tied up and subject to your lover's every whim, knowing she or he will bring pleasure (or pain) to your heart's content? Perhaps your playmate will taunt you with a feather, titillate you with a spanking or tease you with a vibrator. Or maybe you’d like to see your partner “helpless,” which can be a tremendously erotic feeling. Sensory deprivation and restraint are two basic couple’s bondage activities, a practice also known as BDSM. Sensory deprivation allows a top to take control of a bottom and to compel the bottom to focus on other senses, thereby intensifying all sensation. Blindfolding is an easy and common method. Tying up someone's hands and ankles is at the heart of bondage and can most easily be done with wrist and ankle restraints, and, with a little practice, rope.

Other toys in the couples’ BDSM toy chest include nipple clamps, hot wax, paddles, floggers, and other sensation toys such as feathers. If you’re looking for a little erotic inspiration and a playbook for some of these activities, check out the best selling erotic novel, Fifty Shades of Grey, which in a fun introduction to the world of S&M for couples. You can also pick up a few tips from our guides, How to Start Exploring BDSM, and How to Spank.