Sophie Saint Thomas

Sophie Saint Thomas is a campaign ambassador for #WeNeedAButton by Dating.com Group and DatingPositives, and a sex writer based in Brooklyn originally from the U.S. Virgin Islands. Her writing is published in GQ, Playboy, VICE, Cosmopolitan, Forbes, Allure, Glamour, Marie Claire, High Times, Nylon, Harper’s Bazaar, PRIDE Magazine, SELF, and more. Her second book, Sex Witch, is available Fall 2020 via Weiser Books.

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Here are some of Sophie's favorite products.

The Original Magic Wand

I like my vibrators like I like my men: older than me, ha! The original magic wand is kinky because it still plugs into the wall and looks like a piece of machinery. It is a piece of machinery. It is the Cadillac of vibrators. It will make you cum so hard you leave it plugged into the wall by your bed to live there. My favorite use of it is for forced orgasms during bondage. Have your partner tie you up and then use it to cum, cum, cum! It's a must-have for any respectable sex toy collection.

TomBoii Boxer Brief Harness Red

These harnesses are the most comfortable harnesses I've ever work. They are great for gender expression as well. The briefs hold the dildo in place right up against your clit, which is amazing for dual stimulation, especially if you add a bullet vibrator to a pocket in the harness or inside a dildo. These briefs are an honor to the art of strap-on sex.

b-Vibe Rimming Petite

All hail anal sex. All genders can enjoy this beginner vibrating butt plug, which when worn with goopy-water-based lube, warms up the butt most excellently for anal sex. Use it for anal sex prep, or for folks with a vagina, during vaginal penetration for some DP action.

Uberlube

Uberlube is my favorite silicone lubricant! Avoid using it with silicone toys, but it's absolutely amazing for intense penetration from anal sex to vaginal fisting. It lasts a long time without being goopy, in fact, you can even use it to de-frizz your hair. The bottle is chic AF. Keep it next to your perfumes.

Leo Vibe Kit

This is my favorite dildo to use during strap-on sex. It fits in a harness perfectly, is big while being managable, and perfectly fits a bullet vibrator for dual orgasmic stimulation in both partners.

Sona 2 Clitoral Stimulator

Have you heard about these? They're life-changing! These suction-y vibrators helped me learn how to squirt. It uses pressure waves to wrap around your clit and suck an entirely new orgasm out of you.