Dildos

A dildo is a sex toy designed for penetrative play - whether that’s vaginal, anal, solo, or with a partner. Dildos come in tons of sizes, shapes, and styles, from realistic dildos that mimic the look and feel of a penis to curved toys made for targeted G-spot or prostate stimulation. Strap-on dildos are harness-compatible for strap-on play or pegging, while other dildos can be handheld or have a suction cup or mount for masturbation. They come in a variety of materials as well, from skin-soft silicone to sleek stainless steel to gorgeous body-safe strong glass and more - so there's plenty to explore with these toys! 

A dildo is designed primarily for penetrative pleasure, while vibrators focus on sensation through the rumble or buzz of a motor. While dildos are mainly internal toys, vibrators can be for internal, external, or dual/blended stimulation. But there definitely is some overlap! There are vibrating dildos that combine the shape of a dildo with the sensation of a vibrator for the best of both worlds!

Choosing the right beginner toy is all about personal preference, but most beginners prefer a small or medium-sized dildo with a smoother, slimmer shape. Silicone dildos are great for beginners because they are slightly flexible while still being able to hold their shape for easier control in a harness or hand-held. 

Using a dildo can be as simple or as adventurous as you want it to be! But - no matter how you're using your dildo, you want to first make sure that your dildo is clean, and that you apply a generous amount of your favorite lubricant (if you are using a silicone dildo, grab a water-based lube) before you start to play.

There are many ways to use a dildo, depending on the style. Suction cup dildos are great for hands-free play, harness-compatible dildos can be worn with a strap-on harness for partnered play, curved dildos for G-spot stimulation, and anal-friendly dildos (dildos with a flared base) for prostate play and/or pegging!

Whether you’re playing solo or with a partner, focus on arousal first, and ease into penetration gradually. Never rush insertion, especially if it's your first time using a toy. Once you feel ready, experiment with different angles, speeds, and motions to find what works best for you!

Remember to always communicate, listen to your body, and - we cannot stress this enough - don't skip the lube.