Playing Well with Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities

Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams
If you have the slightest shred of interest in exploring the BDSM, sexual-adventure or kink communities -- or even if you're simply a confirmed armchair traveler -- there is no better field guide than this one-of-a-kind resource. Penned by self-identified "sexual sherpas" Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams, sought-after speakers, authors, titleholders, and all-around superstars of the kink world, this engaging and indispensable tome explains it all to the nervous novice and also helps the long-time insider hone social skills and get more of what they want. Written for people of every gender and sexual identity, Playing Well with Others will help you do just that as you seek out kink community and culture, learn to negotiate satisfying scenes with appropriate partners, understand folkways and etiquette, and of course answer the age-old question, "But what do I wear?" 2012, 312 pages.