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So you've picked up your vibrating cock ring and now you're at home all ready to add something new and fun into the bedroom but maybe you and your partner don't know when exactly that right moment is to slip your new toy on. Maybe you've tried using it before but want a slicker way to slide it on before you get to intercourse. We've got an easy no-fuss step-by-step guide on how to "put a ring on it" that will truly impress your guy.1. Be prepared: Make sure your batteries work (or it's juiced up if it's a rechargeable one), get your lube ready (yes, lube - I'll explain in a minute), tissue/napkins/towel/bed sheet, and practice stretching it out so you get a good feeling of how the material moves.2. Before even picking the toy up, start off with your hands on his penis. Here's where the lube comes in: squeeze/pump a generous amount on your hands and warm it up by rubbing your hands together gently. Now you have a slippery, wet hands that are going to feel great!3. Don't let him get fully hard yet! Pause for a moment and wipe off your hands. Now pick up your cock ring and turn the vibrator on. Then slip the stretchy ring over your index finger. You can use this as a finger vibrator to trace around his penis, balls or perineum.4. Of course you can incorporate your mouth at any time. Maybe you want to use the vibrating portion along with a blow job. Maybe you like concentrating the vibration on the head of the penis while gently squeezing his balls. There's endless possibilities here, all you have to do is use your imagination!5. So now that everything is lubed up, he's aroused you can smoothly slip on that cock ring! On one dry hand (this prevents slipping and sliding), stretch out the cock ring starting with your thumb and a couple of in the center and expand then so that the ring is stretched around your semi-open hand. Keep your mouth on the head of his penis and one hand on the shaft, working simultaneously in motion.6. Now, for a brief moment take your mouth away while your hand is still moving up and down the shaft. Here, you can try to sync up the cock ring going around the head with your other hand that's on the shaft (totally not necessary though!). Just slide it on with one hand so your palm ends up on top of the head of his penis. Slide your fingers out from between the ring and his penis and then use your whole hand to slide over his penis and push the ring down to the base (this is why that lube is so important!). You can also use a great hand job technique by letting each hand slide down the shaft quickly one after another so it's a seamless continuous down motion.7. So now it's on! It's up to you whether you want to have the vibrator on the underside of his penis so it can vibrate against the balls or if you want it on the top so it can vibrate against you during intercourse. There should be enough lube so that you can comfortably slide it around into your desired position.My last tip for you is to practice! Practice makes perfect and you can play around with this technique on a dildo, vibrator, cucumber or banana. But most of all, have fun with it!