I'll make a little confession and say that The Mistress was the first dildo I ever bought (at Babeland, years ago). In all the time I've had her, she's never let me down. There were a few reasons I picked her over all of the other fine candidates:Width: The Mistress is a great width for people who don't want their dildos to be too girthy. Width can be nice, but sometimes you just feel like something a little slimmerFlexibility: The slimness of the Mistress means it can wiggle around a little bit. This makes it a perfect toy for anal play, since it will move with the slight curvature of the rectumLength: A little longer than most, the length of the Mistress makes it great for harnessing (you always lose a little bit of length when you harness something) and you'll even have enough to hold on to it if you need to guide it somewhereTexture: Super smooth, the surface of the Mistress makes for easy gliding especially for those sensitive to too many bumpsMaterial: I've already raved about my love of silicone here and I owe my adoration all to the MistressVibration: They now make The Mistress with a vibrating option - the upgrade we've all been waiting for.