This article was published a bit ago but it's a fantastic look at the sexual rights of disabled people. Able-bodied people rarely take the time to even acknowledge disabled people as sexual beings, let alone think about what that might mean. This article takes a good look at the current state of sex positive work for disabled people as well as the UN document on the rights of persons which mentioned sexuality in relation to disabled people only once. Check it out and school your friends.Babeland has some toys that are helpful for people with limited mobility. The toy pictured (the iFlex) has a long handle and bends so that it can go wherever you need it. It's very handy if you need that extra reach.