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ibodIf you think sex toy stores like Babeland are only for women, think again. I love helping male customers find just the right condom or butt plug for their girlfriend to stick in their ass. A lot of guys come in shopping for toys for their partners. What better gift could there be?If it's hard enough to figure out which color scarf you should buy someone, it can be even harder to pick out the right sex toy. Big, small, hard, soft, pink, black, fast, slow.... the list goes on and on.To help all of the gift givers out there, Babeland has developed a fantastic guide to buying sex toys for women. I would recommend this guide for anyone who is looking to buy a toy, even if the toy is for yourself. All of the toys in the guide were made by women and have the qualities that women most want in a sex toy.In addition to this guide, I would also keep in mind a couple of other key tips:1. You might not get it right the first time: it's hard to tell exactly what you're going to like so don't be disappointed if your first try doesn't quite hit the spot. Think about what's not working, then tell Babeland and we'll help you find the qualities you or your partner are looking for.2. Tastes change: Although we may find a toy that we want to hold close for the rest of our lives, this isn't always the case. Bodies and sexual responses change and we might want a different toy a few years down the line. Additionally, we might want different toys at a given point during one sexual encounter. Something softer at the beginning and harder at the end, for example.3. Speaking of diversity, I always love having a vibe that has multiple speeds. This lets you or your partner tune the intensity up or down, depending on what you need right that second.So, with those three tips and this fantastic guide - you're all set! Get to it!