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Boo to Ghosting
By: Educator Andy Duran & Lisa Finn - 04/21/2023
Dipping out of something without warning--be it a party, a conversation, or even (you guessed it) a relationship—is not a new concept, even if the term “ghosting” itself is more modern.
Think Outside the Box: External Vibes
By: Babeland - 04/12/2023
Sometimes penetrative sex (either with a penis, fingers, or a toy) gets all the attention. And while there’s lots of fun to be had inside the body, we don’t ever want to forget the good sensations that can come from external stimulation. 
Yes, No, Maybe
By: Lisa Finn - 03/29/2023
Consent and communication are key in all aspects of our lives, but especially when it comes to sex. Not sure where to start? YES / NO / MAYBE lists are a great way to break the ice and get the conversation going!
It’s Going Down: Cunnilingus 101
By: Lisa Finn - 03/08/2023
Wanna get down with going down? We’ve got the tips to have you eating out like a pro.
Exploring Threesomes
By: Carol Queen PhD - 03/01/2023
A threesome can be explored by three people of any gender or orientation, as long as the interest and attraction lines up so there’s something for everyone to enjoy.
Playing in Public
By: Babeland - 02/03/2023
It’s a really common fantasy—sneaking a quickie when you’re out and about.
Say It Like You Mean It: Dirty Talk 101
By: Babeland - 02/02/2023
We usually think of erotic talk as comprising a string of racy four-letter words, and if we've grown up in a conservative environment that might seem overwhelming.
Getting a Grip: Kegels
By: Carol Queen PhD - 01/08/2023
High arousal and orgasm can involve muscles all over your body. O- face? Muscles! Toe-curling and sheet-clutching? Same!
New Year's Self Care
By: Educator Andy Duran - 01/07/2023
You’ve taken care of everyone else and wrapped up all those end-of-the-year projects; time to take a long, deep breath. 
All In: Fisting 101
By: Carol Queen PhD - 10/20/2022
National Fisting Day was created by Jiz Lee and Courtney Trouble as a response to the overwhelming censorship of fisting as a sex act in pornography.
Hit The Spot: G-spot 101
By: Lisa Finn - 10/15/2022
Let’s start off by affirming: the G-spot is a real thing. (And a great one, too!)
Make a Scene: Roleplay 101
By: Carol Queen, PhD - 10/06/2022
Sometimes you just want to be somebody else for a while. And there may be no better place to explore that than during sex!