When it comes to exploring anal and using butt toys, there are a lot of folks that will never give it a go because of the persistent myth that anal sex is painful. Using anal toys shouldn't be uncomfortable or painful - if you find that using a toy hurts, it’s more than likely that there’s an easy fix: try starting with a smaller toy, going slower (take your time when you're first trying booty play!), switch the position that you're in, and always ALWAYS make sure you're using plenty of lubricant with your anal toys.