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Although strap-ons are considered classiclesbian accoutrement, dildo harnesses are used by people of all genders andsexual orientations. Strap-ons stir up all sorts of exciting possibilities andquestion fundamental assumptions about who's doing the fucking and who?sgetting fucked.

Consider the possibilities:  Receive a strap-on blow job.  Fuck your partner.  Have a hard-on that lasts all night, nomatter what.  Provide your partner withnew sensations.  It?s no wonder that strap-on dildos and harnessesare so popular.

Are you looking for a harness that ...Try...BabelandFavorite
Comes in an all-in-one beginner's kit?

TheBendOver Beginner Kit comes with two silicone dildos, a plushvelvet harness, and a mini-vibrator that fits into a clit stimulation pocket on the harness. The Babeland Beginner's Strap-On Kit includes a simple leather harness, mid-size silicone dildo, mini vibrator, and extra O-rings.

Is classic and versatile?TheTerraFirma Harness is a classic. It's sturdy, comfortable, and easy-to-use.  And its interchangeable O-ring is an innovativedesign that holds almost any dildo on the market.
Is vegan?Non-leatherharnesses include the Vegan Jaguar Harness, the Spareparts Theo Harness.
Is the ultimate in style and comfort?TheJaguarHarness combines sexiness and practicality. Its soft, buttery leather makes for the comfiest harness you'll everwear.  And it comes in black, silver, or cherry red; it's even available in a vegan style.
Is convertible between one- and two-strapstyles?TheCommando Harness can be worn as either a one- or two-strap.  A great choice for first time harnessbuyers who can't decide between styles, or couples who have different harnesspreferences.
Is available in larger sizes?The Spareparts Joque Harness fits up to 65" hips. The sassy Crown Harness fits hips up to 64", and thighs up 28", while riding higher up than most harnesses for better control. 
Is sexy?Sexyis a matter of taste, of course, but we're partial to the Jaguar,Spareparts Joque, and Commando.

Fits a wide variety of dildo sizes?

Theadjustable O-ring on Terra Firma-style harnesses allow you to use almost anydildo you like!  Pick up a 4-Ring Pack tomake your harness even more versatile.
Includes vibration?TheBuzzMe Tender Harness features two small pockets that can accommodate a bulletvibrator like the powerful Babeland SilverBullet or a cordless mini-vibe like the Babeland Buzz.

Accommodates a dildo with balls?

Dildoswith balls can make an uncomfortable lump underneath a traditionalharness. Try a harness like the TerraFirma or Commando, which position the entire dildo in front of the harness, or the Spareparts Joque, which provides a small pouch to tuck the balls into.
Straps to your thigh?The Thigh Harness is a great option for folks with hip, back, or mobility issues.Also great for people who want to strap it on and leave genitals completelyfree for play!
Good for hard packing?The Commando harness features minimal hardware, making it more comfortable and less bulkyunder clothes. The ever-popular Spareparts Joque Harness fits snugly and comfortably against the body under clothes.
Good for soft packing?Boththe Mr.Right Packing Strap and the Deluxe Packing Pouch are perfect for your day-to-day soft packing needs.

HarnessBasics

There are a few basic considerations to keep inmind while picking out a harness:

  • Materials: Most harnesses are made of leatherbecause it is comfortable to wear and molds to your body shape over time.  However, some people prefer vinyl or nylonharnesses because they are easier to clean and vegan.
  • Style: Harnesses come in two basic models — two-strap or g-string.  Two-strap harnessesfit around your legs, keep harnesses secure, and generally keep genitals openfor play.  G-string (also calledone-strap harnesses) fit like a thong. People who like G-string harnesses enjoy the friction provided by thestrap running between their legs.
  • Buckles vs. D-Rings: Harness straps arefastened with either buckles or D-rings. Buckles take longer to fasten but never slip.  D-rings have a tendency to slip, especiallyafter a harness is worn in, but they are easily adjusted with one hand bypulling on the strap.

 The easiest way to decide on a harness is totry it on.  If you live near one of ourstores, stop by and we'll let you use our dressing room.  Trying on a harness over your clothes givesyou a better idea of how a harness fits your unique body, how easy it is foryou to adjust, and how comfortable and secure it will be while you're wearingit.